Ramblings of an Observer.
This post will contain things that some people may not like. As with all things in life there are things you will not like, you have one of two options stop reading now or live with it. I am writing from my view point and no one elses I have to insist on this point as some will still try and say I am only putting some of this because others have told me to. Believe me these points are my own and NO ONE ELSES.
Firstly why can't people accept themselves for themselves and not aspire to be something they are not. You are who you are, no one else and nobody expects you to be anyone else. This whole thing of why am I not this, why am I not that, why am I not getting this or why am I not getting that. This thing about looking at models in magazines and comparing yourselves to them, come on there are so many things that go into that sort of photo that at the end of the day that is not how they look truthfully in real life. The programme "photoshop" plays alot in this and then there is the camera, the angle, the lighting and the make up. The way you look is fine, you look great and do not need to change in any way shape or form. If you do change then I am sorry but you are too vain for your own good. Please do not use the term "I just want to improve myself". It may be the case if there is something seriously but be honest is there something so wrong with yourself that you need to change. Others who knock you or say you are ugly or stupid or not worth it are wrong, they do not know about anything and need to take a long hard look at themselves before commenting on you. No one is perfect they never will be and everyone has to accept this everyone has faults EVERYONE and if they do think this they are very much mistaken.
Moving on and this is something I have to realised and must accept from now on. I am going to be single for the rest of my life and must stop being interested in young ladies because after several attempts to show interest over the years in different ladies I have had no success. I accept it easily because I have learnt to understand that is how it is going to be. I think this will lead to just being polite but not over stepping the mark at any point whatsoever and no longer buying things for people that all I think is doing a good deed as a gentleman, but having it thrown back at me in one way or another. I have over time always thought that I should be kind and considerate to all ladies and be a gentleman to all of them no matter what. I think from now on I will be just like all the others out there and not put myself out for anybody.
A couple of comments from people have knocked me back at times andf I would like to share them or at least put them in writing. They are both along the same lines and if you recognise them so be it. The first is a comment of "I see you as a father figure" well thanks that really makes me feel old I know it was said in such a way that it implied that I was someone they could speak to and get advice but it does knock you back when you get older. The other one was "I speak to you like I speak to my father". Here we go again the knock you down because you are older and to add insult to injury is the fact that the person who said it to me does not like their father all that much so what am I supose to get from that. I do suspect it was not meant in such a fashion but I do have time to think about what context it was meant.
In finishing I would just like to say that everyone has the right to their own opinion whether others agree with it or not is up to them and I hope you all accept that I have an opinion and am allowed to at least put it here.
Firstly why can't people accept themselves for themselves and not aspire to be something they are not. You are who you are, no one else and nobody expects you to be anyone else. This whole thing of why am I not this, why am I not that, why am I not getting this or why am I not getting that. This thing about looking at models in magazines and comparing yourselves to them, come on there are so many things that go into that sort of photo that at the end of the day that is not how they look truthfully in real life. The programme "photoshop" plays alot in this and then there is the camera, the angle, the lighting and the make up. The way you look is fine, you look great and do not need to change in any way shape or form. If you do change then I am sorry but you are too vain for your own good. Please do not use the term "I just want to improve myself". It may be the case if there is something seriously but be honest is there something so wrong with yourself that you need to change. Others who knock you or say you are ugly or stupid or not worth it are wrong, they do not know about anything and need to take a long hard look at themselves before commenting on you. No one is perfect they never will be and everyone has to accept this everyone has faults EVERYONE and if they do think this they are very much mistaken.
Moving on and this is something I have to realised and must accept from now on. I am going to be single for the rest of my life and must stop being interested in young ladies because after several attempts to show interest over the years in different ladies I have had no success. I accept it easily because I have learnt to understand that is how it is going to be. I think this will lead to just being polite but not over stepping the mark at any point whatsoever and no longer buying things for people that all I think is doing a good deed as a gentleman, but having it thrown back at me in one way or another. I have over time always thought that I should be kind and considerate to all ladies and be a gentleman to all of them no matter what. I think from now on I will be just like all the others out there and not put myself out for anybody.
A couple of comments from people have knocked me back at times andf I would like to share them or at least put them in writing. They are both along the same lines and if you recognise them so be it. The first is a comment of "I see you as a father figure" well thanks that really makes me feel old I know it was said in such a way that it implied that I was someone they could speak to and get advice but it does knock you back when you get older. The other one was "I speak to you like I speak to my father". Here we go again the knock you down because you are older and to add insult to injury is the fact that the person who said it to me does not like their father all that much so what am I supose to get from that. I do suspect it was not meant in such a fashion but I do have time to think about what context it was meant.
In finishing I would just like to say that everyone has the right to their own opinion whether others agree with it or not is up to them and I hope you all accept that I have an opinion and am allowed to at least put it here.