Nov 11, 2007 20:27
I really, really, really cannot stand the hypocracy of "defenders of morality" when they say that gays (and lesbians) cannot be good parents.
All the time I see, on TV, and read in news papers, parents who neglect their kids, beat their kids, sell their kids, abandon their kids, and abuse their kids. Yet, everyday, gay men and lesbian women are told we cannot be good parents. What about the aforementioned heterosexual men and women who obviously cannot take care of their offspring? I guess heterosexuality is a license to shit out all the kids you physically can, but don't have to take care of.
Case in point: I was channel surfing on Friday afternoon, and I came across Inside Edition and this one story featured a 5-year-old girl who -- incredibly -- weighed 420 pounds.
What. The. Fuck!
I am 28, seventy-one inches tall, and weigh around 185 pounds. I find it completely amazing that this one little girl could weigh so much. So, how did this little heiffer gain so much? Apparently, the mother, or, shall I say "mother," didn't know how to say "no" to her little crotch-fruit whenever she threw a temper tantrum. So the "mother" fed her fat-ass daughter just about every 2 hours...since she was born! Five years later, Baby Huge-Ass literally looked like a fat slug laying on the floor of her living room, with her fat rolls protruding around her jowls, her hips, and...fat ass.
This story must have been a repeat, because it had an amendendum: The daughter was sent to child protective services, and the mother was forced to take parenting classes. Now the daughter lost a significant amount of weight, so she is more normal. Unfortunately, she has to have operations to remove the several pounds of loose skin hanging from her body.
At the end of the story, the "mother" was like, "I know now what I did wrong, giving into my daughter's temper-tantrums, and I won't do it again! I am going to start disciplining my daughter from now on, even though I should have been doing it from the very beginning! Oh shucks, I am a good mother now! "
Go fuck yourself, you fucking fat fuck-of-a-whore. While you are at it, shoot yourself in the head so you don't give birth to, and neglect, any more innocent kids.
Yes, I am angry at this story because it is personal! This story, and the dozens I have seen and heard over the years, just makes me stop and think of the horrible double-standard that gay men and lesbians have to put up with every hour of every day.
On the flip side, every day, kids who are in foster care, go without loving homes, all because some ignorant bible-thumper passed a law that forbids "those degenerate gays" from adopting kids. These kids need loving homes. These kids don't care they are being adopted by gay parents. They just want someone who will be there to love them unconditionally.
I wonder what the conversation between conservatives is like when there are no liberals around? It must be something like this:
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #1: "Gays are the reason this country is so backwards. We should deny them everything we take for granted, including starting a family!"
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #2: "That is a fabulous idea! In an effort to protect our country from the eeeeevil homosexual agenda, we should also deny them the ability to foster and adopt kids! We wouldn't want them molesting them, now would we? Let us make laws!"
Neglected kid in Foster care: "Can someone please adopt me? I am sick of being moved from home to home all the time. I am never being able to get to know anyone. Maybe that gay couple over there would want me..."
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #1: No, Neglected Kid in Foster Care! We are protecting you!...by denying them the ability to adopt you, therefore forcing you to remain in a system that ultimately creates dilinquent kids! We are the heroes!"
Neglected Kid in Foster Care: "But there are not enough heterosexual couples who would want to adopt me, and the rest of my Neglected Foster Friends. Are you sure I can't go with that gay family?"
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #2: "Now, now, Neglected Kid in Foster Care, we know best! It is best not to question our unfallible logic...."
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #1: "Hey, Conserative #2, what are you doing later on?"
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #2: "Oh, I'll just be trying to score some anonymous gay sex in an airport men's rest room."
Ignorant, Hateful Conservative Bible-Thumper #1: "Ok. Don't get caught. If you did get caught, that would make you look like a hypocritical asshole."
Ok. Maybe I went off onto a tangent. Hopefully someone gets the idea that the people who pass laws to deny gays the ability to adopt kids is not hurting the gays! Those people who pass homophobic laws are hurting the kids who need stable, loving homes.
With regard to that fat-ass-bitch who fed her child to life-threatening proportions: Why did she get her daughter back? All she did was take some parenting course. (I'll bet the final test was multipe choice.) Maybe her daughter would be better off in a gay home.
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