I was mentioning to my friend how much I hate the word 'slut' and the new trend of 'I'm a slut for ___' because of the ubiquitous, casual way it denigrates and demeans women and girls.
And she pointed me at this website -
The UnSlut Project I haven't read it yet because my brain is in fandom obsession mode. But I lose and forget about links, so am putting it here for later.