On a serious note, it's easy to feel the way you do and it's through no fault of your own. I went through roughly the same thing before I started uni, as I took a year out to try and get a full-time job but failed miserably. Everyone else I knew at that point was getting on with their lives, either getting full-time jobs, finishing college or starting university. It felt to me during that period that I was just forgotten about as I wasn't invited places and I feel really bad forcing myself on people, so I didn't push the matter and I just ended up feeling lonely, and we don't want that. *hugs*
I think it's mainly because we forget that out of our circle of friends you're one of the few people that works full-time, with very long tiring hours spanning two jobs! *salutes* And it's not that we don't want you at these events we DO, but it kinda slips our mind that you can't attend these events due to work and stuffs, which is a shame I'll admit but its not something which will stay the same for ever.
Off the top of my head one of the other ways for you to continue working and stuff and STILL have some sort of social life is by moving out with some friends. That way when you get home you have your friends to sit and talk to and put your feet up with. I realize that this isn't an option anytime soon ^^;; given the amount of money we'd be spending next year, but there is talk of people wanting to move into a house/flat or something towards Jan '09, which is a long way off but it gives ample time to prepare should you feel it might be worth trying out.
I'll stop rambling now~
(Sai makes straight men fantasise about him....HALP!~XD)
Awww *huggy hugs* Thankyou Mike. As usual, the voice of reason speaks out. XD I didn't mean to sound like I was getting at anyone because I know very well how lovely all of you guys are and I'm fully aware that really, NONE of us have the luxury of matching time-tables to plan our social lives by. But thankyou again for putting my mind at rest. ^__< I just realsied that I dont think I've got you on my friends list. O_O how odd. *changes this* X3
On a serious note, it's easy to feel the way you do and it's through no fault of your own. I went through roughly the same thing before I started uni, as I took a year out to try and get a full-time job but failed miserably. Everyone else I knew at that point was getting on with their lives, either getting full-time jobs, finishing college or starting university. It felt to me during that period that I was just forgotten about as I wasn't invited places and I feel really bad forcing myself on people, so I didn't push the matter and I just ended up feeling lonely, and we don't want that. *hugs*
I think it's mainly because we forget that out of our circle of friends you're one of the few people that works full-time, with very long tiring hours spanning two jobs! *salutes* And it's not that we don't want you at these events we DO, but it kinda slips our mind that you can't attend these events due to work and stuffs, which is a shame I'll admit but its not something which will stay the same for ever.
Off the top of my head one of the other ways for you to continue working and stuff and STILL have some sort of social life is by moving out with some friends. That way when you get home you have your friends to sit and talk to and put your feet up with. I realize that this isn't an option anytime soon ^^;; given the amount of money we'd be spending next year, but there is talk of people wanting to move into a house/flat or something towards Jan '09, which is a long way off but it gives ample time to prepare should you feel it might be worth trying out.
I'll stop rambling now~
(Sai makes straight men fantasise about him....HALP!~XD)
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