ZOMG I am so not happy...
Today has proven to be most aggravating since the day started with a missed phone call. So I dialed up my voice mail and was greeted with a message about Teo. Turns out my looser of an ex decided to go to a cash advance place and not only took out a large sum of money but decided not to pay them.
Now you see this doesn't surprise me in the least since after the divorce I found out he hadn't paid several of the bills that he told me he had taken care of while I was married to the bastard.
*takes a deep breath* What did surprise me is that this loan was done shortly after the divorce AND that my good for nothing ex used MY information in order to obtain said loan! So here I am on the phone with a very nice gal who is desperately trying to find my scumball of an ex.
It was hard not to hold anger in my voice after all she had nothing to do with this nor was the cause of my anger. But I had to explain that about two months ago I had found out that Teo had been cheating on me and that I had nothing to do with him once I had confronted him. I gave her the last known address he had been staying at, the cell phone number I last knew he had and the number for the job that God knows if he still has.
She kept apologizing after that and told me that she would remove my information right away from the system and also put up a warning on his account in case he tries to go to another cash advance branch location and try to commit fraud once more.
So now I'm having to talk to more lawyers, and getting ready to file a police report in the state of Idaho that may or may not lead to a warrant for his arrest.
Yeah...in the seven odd years I was with him I never EVER saw this being a part of who he really is. He used to be so sweet and caring till we got married then not only did he become verbally abusive but really started to show his true colors.
I'm thank God I found out about his cheating and that I left his mother fucking ass. If I thought he was a looser before this my opinion now is a thousand times worse. I'm not sure words can properly describe the level of pure vehement despise and growing hate I feel for him now. No...No words do not do come close to what I feel about him. I only hope one day he pays for what he's done if not in this life then in the next.
Now I'd prefer to end this journal entry on a lighter note and say that the rest of my day was actually quite pleasant if not amusing. After the Teo issue played out I decided to just drive to the mall and putz since I needed a distraction and went to my store. I was utterly amused that not one person knew who I was at first glance since I cut and died my hair and was in my civi's and I couldn't help but laugh.
After I was done putzing at the mall I headed back home to relax and WoW a bit with Ness before taking a break and decided to just go out and lay in the sun....I will say I was only out there for an hour and my arms, legs and shoulders are red LOL. I'm so not used to the sun at all but it was nice to just read a good book and just be outside especially after such a wild emotional day.
Now I just get to relax and debate what clothes I should wear to work tomorrow...I don't have a uniform any more so I'm no longer used to having to plan my attire. *sighs* Awe well I've babbled long enough time to decide and perhaps read a bit more before I crash out for the night.
What a day.
Now you see this doesn't surprise me in the least since after the divorce I found out he hadn't paid several of the bills that he told me he had taken care of while I was married to the bastard.
*takes a deep breath* What did surprise me is that this loan was done shortly after the divorce AND that my good for nothing ex used MY information in order to obtain said loan! So here I am on the phone with a very nice gal who is desperately trying to find my scumball of an ex.
It was hard not to hold anger in my voice after all she had nothing to do with this nor was the cause of my anger. But I had to explain that about two months ago I had found out that Teo had been cheating on me and that I had nothing to do with him once I had confronted him. I gave her the last known address he had been staying at, the cell phone number I last knew he had and the number for the job that God knows if he still has.
She kept apologizing after that and told me that she would remove my information right away from the system and also put up a warning on his account in case he tries to go to another cash advance branch location and try to commit fraud once more.
So now I'm having to talk to more lawyers, and getting ready to file a police report in the state of Idaho that may or may not lead to a warrant for his arrest.
Yeah...in the seven odd years I was with him I never EVER saw this being a part of who he really is. He used to be so sweet and caring till we got married then not only did he become verbally abusive but really started to show his true colors.
I'm thank God I found out about his cheating and that I left his mother fucking ass. If I thought he was a looser before this my opinion now is a thousand times worse. I'm not sure words can properly describe the level of pure vehement despise and growing hate I feel for him now. No...No words do not do come close to what I feel about him. I only hope one day he pays for what he's done if not in this life then in the next.
Now I'd prefer to end this journal entry on a lighter note and say that the rest of my day was actually quite pleasant if not amusing. After the Teo issue played out I decided to just drive to the mall and putz since I needed a distraction and went to my store. I was utterly amused that not one person knew who I was at first glance since I cut and died my hair and was in my civi's and I couldn't help but laugh.
After I was done putzing at the mall I headed back home to relax and WoW a bit with Ness before taking a break and decided to just go out and lay in the sun....I will say I was only out there for an hour and my arms, legs and shoulders are red LOL. I'm so not used to the sun at all but it was nice to just read a good book and just be outside especially after such a wild emotional day.
Now I just get to relax and debate what clothes I should wear to work tomorrow...I don't have a uniform any more so I'm no longer used to having to plan my attire. *sighs* Awe well I've babbled long enough time to decide and perhaps read a bit more before I crash out for the night.
What a day.