Icon is basically how we all feel about M at this juncture.
I have to wonder if this is a side of his previous "relationships" that we never did see, simply because, prior to this, none of us were actually sharing living quarters with one of his victims. I've only met a handful of the ones he's screwed up with, a couple of which I never did get to hear anything about what was going on on their end. One I did get to talk to about stuff, and while he didn't indicate that M was going total batshit, that's exactly what he did with J.
I kinda think that M doesn't want a "husband" or a "boyfriend" so much as he wants someone he can manipulate until he gets tired of it. L has some theory that J's ex was the only guy he was ever "in love" with and in the course of his drama, might've got it in his head to try and reconcile with that guy instead now.
I said to BF this morning, "If he does do that, I hope he's considered everything he'll be giving up..." \
To which BF responded, "I won't have a thing to do with Mr. X. M knows that. Everyone knows that. So if he decides to get with Mr. X, I won't have a thing to do with him either."
Still, from everything I know about Mr. X, he probably wants nothing to do with M, other than to use him to try and get back at J for leaving. Because he sounds like that sort of master manipulator. It's been alleged that "Sister X", who is technically (though not frequently seen at all) a friend of BF and everyone, has said that she thinks J's presence will cause problems between BF and me.
We're not sure how that would work, exactly. If there are problems between BF and me, they'd be related to BF or me, not J. If J causes problems, I'm sure BF and I would simply agree that J gotta go. But I'm still trying to sort out how someone who helps keep the house organised and pays rent money and otherwise doesn't get in the way is going to cause us problems. In fact, whenever he's supposed to get a nice chunk of money soon, he's talking about renovating the "Empty Room" so that it can be his bedroom and get himself out of our living room. (That room's been needing cleared out for years, and J being here is finally a catalyst for getting people off their asses to clear the room of all the shit that's been simply wasting space for years? I couldn't be happier.)
J is out with L now. L met him at work with flowers, a stuffed wolf and some sort of wolf statuette. (J likes wolves.) They stopped here so that J could change, and they're off. Probably to the Olive Garden, because I assumed L would probably intend to take him to dinner, and J was "oohing" at an Olive Garden commercial last night, so I just told L that with a ;) face.
Yeah I'm not sure how "Sister X" can really make such a big claim like that, she can't claim to know the inner workings of your relationship with the BF and how J could potentially affect that. I'm sure that if he did cause problems you'd agree to let him go, but for now it sounds like both of you love having him around, despite the recent drama (which doesn't seem to be putting pressure on anything between the three of you).
That's so sweet... I really hope J lets L in, he sounds like a wonderful guy!
I have to wonder if this is a side of his previous "relationships" that we never did see, simply because, prior to this, none of us were actually sharing living quarters with one of his victims. I've only met a handful of the ones he's screwed up with, a couple of which I never did get to hear anything about what was going on on their end. One I did get to talk to about stuff, and while he didn't indicate that M was going total batshit, that's exactly what he did with J.
I kinda think that M doesn't want a "husband" or a "boyfriend" so much as he wants someone he can manipulate until he gets tired of it. L has some theory that J's ex was the only guy he was ever "in love" with and in the course of his drama, might've got it in his head to try and reconcile with that guy instead now.
I said to BF this morning, "If he does do that, I hope he's considered everything he'll be giving up..." \
To which BF responded, "I won't have a thing to do with Mr. X. M knows that. Everyone knows that. So if he decides to get with Mr. X, I won't have a thing to do with him either."
Still, from everything I know about Mr. X, he probably wants nothing to do with M, other than to use him to try and get back at J for leaving. Because he sounds like that sort of master manipulator. It's been alleged that "Sister X", who is technically (though not frequently seen at all) a friend of BF and everyone, has said that she thinks J's presence will cause problems between BF and me.
We're not sure how that would work, exactly. If there are problems between BF and me, they'd be related to BF or me, not J. If J causes problems, I'm sure BF and I would simply agree that J gotta go. But I'm still trying to sort out how someone who helps keep the house organised and pays rent money and otherwise doesn't get in the way is going to cause us problems. In fact, whenever he's supposed to get a nice chunk of money soon, he's talking about renovating the "Empty Room" so that it can be his bedroom and get himself out of our living room. (That room's been needing cleared out for years, and J being here is finally a catalyst for getting people off their asses to clear the room of all the shit that's been simply wasting space for years? I couldn't be happier.)
J is out with L now. L met him at work with flowers, a stuffed wolf and some sort of wolf statuette. (J likes wolves.) They stopped here so that J could change, and they're off. Probably to the Olive Garden, because I assumed L would probably intend to take him to dinner, and J was "oohing" at an Olive Garden commercial last night, so I just told L that with a ;) face.
I think J will be fine.
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That's so sweet... I really hope J lets L in, he sounds like a wonderful guy!
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