Comments | sararamirezfan1: what am I suppose to do???

sararamirezfan1

what am I suppose to do???

Feb 21, 2010 14:56

I still love my best friend. Those feelings has not gone away. And I can not act on anything because she is so into guys and I am married so that would be cheating but I believe my hubby knows something is up because he makes these comments like why don't have sex with her! Which took me by surprise!!! And I don't say anything at all when he says ( Read more... )

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spookysstarbuck February 21 2010, 22:43:11 UTC

wow that's quite some situation.

man seldom have a problem if another woman is involved. as long as it is no man. he knows, I guess, that you would never risk your family.

probably you really have to talk to him somehow about your feelings?

*bear hugs*

kermdawg February 22 2010, 01:44:22 UTC

When you figure it out, let me know what to do! I've been in the same boat for a few years now. Married, have a child, and I lead a pretty good life. I would be a fool to give it up. I started crushing hard on my best friend a couple of years back, which led to us having a drunken makeout session, which left me confused. I'm over my crush, but still find myself attracted to women more than I do my husband (who I love dearly, don't get me wrong). Long story, short...I totally feel your pain.

carorules February 22 2010, 15:31:03 UTC

I wish there's was a simple solution. I doubt there is. Esp since your friend you have feeling for can't never reciprocate.. You have to try and get over her, if you are 100% certain she will never have the same feelings for you. I know, easier said than done.

sararamirezfan1 February 22 2010, 17:31:57 UTC

I have talked to her pretty much all morning we were planning to meet for lunch but school was cancelled because of the roads and weather and I didn't really want to drag out 4 kids out in this crap and while we were talked she sent me a picture on my phone telling me she loves me the picture is a dog kissing the other dog on the cheek..I sent a cute showing love picture! I am scared to tell her again about my feelings!!! Ugh!!!!

spookysstarbuck February 27 2010, 11:32:42 UTC

I am a little curious - so did things go?

sararamirezfan1 February 27 2010, 15:21:10 UTC

nothing has happened we are suppose to meet for lunch Monday so we will see if anything happens! She told me the other day that woman are looking better every day but I am not sure if she means that or not! I am keeping my fingers crossed. We havent seen each other in about 7 months because of her getting a job and us moving a little farther away. I will let you all know if anything happens Monday or even if we get to meet for lunch!