Emotions

[sarahdale]

Ok, so I don't know what to do. I really like this guy but when we broke up I said alot of really hurtful things because I wanted to protect myself. Well that just made things all crazy, we ended up talking last night and it helped but now I feel like I have to go through the whole getting over him thing and that really sucks. Is there any easy

Comments

[marabelljade]

Getting over a guy isn't easy. But you do it usually is a sudden realization. Like you just finished talking to them and are walking away, and realize that your heart is not beating any faster than normal, your knees are not wobbly, and you aren't replaying the conversation over and over in your head kicking yourself for sounding like an idiot... or that could just be my reaction.
As a rule of thumb, I would say it takes twice as long to get over a person as the amount of time it took you to realize that you liked them in the first place. It isn't an easy thing to do.
Also, a long time away from them helps, if you want to go back to being friends.