RANT
This is the rant about my two friends who are blinded by this and that and whatnot. They shall be called A and J. (don't read if you have a life.)
Okay so in government, A and J are talking and it gets kinda like typical A-talk but then it gets on J's nerves this time because well, it's kinda a stupid conversation that would cause frustration. And then things happen, and A gets more and more pissed off. So then he's all cranky and rambles to me and then J is all cranky and rambles to me and I let J know that A's rambling to me and he gets all pissed and find out what he says and gets even more pissed and continues rambling. And then A is all pissed too and stressed out. But I'm on both sides trying to convince the other to understand what the other is feeling, aka college apps, finals, etc.... There's just a ton of stress and it isn't helping any. But BOTH are like "well that's no excuse". HUH. HUUUUH well then. >> Basically they hate each other's guts.
See this is why the thing I wish everyone in the world had more of is open-mindedness. With that, we could see each other more clearly and not be so clouded by what we think. A thinks J's "jum dui" -ing him, but he's not and I know it, even w/o asking J. J thinks A's doing the same, (and maybe he is.. actually...) but it's mostly b/c the stress's taking over him and he doesn't know how to manage it. Some go with violence, some go with sex. Some go with being plain mean. XD
Neither is willing to understand each other, even when I'm stating plainly what the other must be feeling to lead up to that kind of behavior. All they seem to say is how unacceptable it is and how it's no excuse. Yes, both say it, so isn't that like..RAWR. I really hate being in between them, but I care for both, and I don't want them to just throw away their friendship like that. Yes, they are going to. It seems that serious. >> A claims to hate something that J holds very dearly, and J says he will never accept A again. Great . JUST GREAT. Good progress guys. Way to step up and take the high road.
Haha anyways. So yeah this post is all about me. XD
Okay so in government, A and J are talking and it gets kinda like typical A-talk but then it gets on J's nerves this time because well, it's kinda a stupid conversation that would cause frustration. And then things happen, and A gets more and more pissed off. So then he's all cranky and rambles to me and then J is all cranky and rambles to me and I let J know that A's rambling to me and he gets all pissed and find out what he says and gets even more pissed and continues rambling. And then A is all pissed too and stressed out. But I'm on both sides trying to convince the other to understand what the other is feeling, aka college apps, finals, etc.... There's just a ton of stress and it isn't helping any. But BOTH are like "well that's no excuse". HUH. HUUUUH well then. >> Basically they hate each other's guts.
See this is why the thing I wish everyone in the world had more of is open-mindedness. With that, we could see each other more clearly and not be so clouded by what we think. A thinks J's "jum dui" -ing him, but he's not and I know it, even w/o asking J. J thinks A's doing the same, (and maybe he is.. actually...) but it's mostly b/c the stress's taking over him and he doesn't know how to manage it. Some go with violence, some go with sex. Some go with being plain mean. XD
Neither is willing to understand each other, even when I'm stating plainly what the other must be feeling to lead up to that kind of behavior. All they seem to say is how unacceptable it is and how it's no excuse. Yes, both say it, so isn't that like..RAWR. I really hate being in between them, but I care for both, and I don't want them to just throw away their friendship like that. Yes, they are going to. It seems that serious. >> A claims to hate something that J holds very dearly, and J says he will never accept A again. Great . JUST GREAT. Good progress guys. Way to step up and take the high road.
Haha anyways. So yeah this post is all about me. XD