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[setos_puppy]

Title: The Cake is Not a Lie: An Asexual Glee Love Story
Pairing: Kurt/Sam
Rating: PG-13
Warning: Schoomp, pure, utter unadulterated fluff
Summary: Kurt is troubled. Kurt talks to Sam. Sam has the same troubles. They bond.
Disclaimer: So very definitely not mine.
Notes: After revengent wrote me this amazing asexual Sam/Kurt love story the idea festered in

Comments

[onyxnailo]

ok so not only did i love this for its sweetness but one of my best friends is asexual and for the longest time (meaning until i looked at some of that stuff) i assumed that all asexuals were like her meaning they have no sexual urges or inclinations. so thanks!

[setos_puppy]

:D

Asexuality is as fluid as any other sexuality. There are hard core aces that don't masturbate, don't have sex, nothing, there are some that occassionaly have sex, maybe once or twice a year, and sometimes masturbate, there are some that masturbate but don't have sex, and then you have people who are aromantic, who often love sex, but don't feel emotional ties to a partner.

[onyxnailo]

yeah my friend is an artist so while she can acknowledge someone's physical beauty she feels nothing for them she's isn't attracted to people physically or romantically it can be a little off-putting and confusing because she has no interest in having any type of non-friend relationship so every time she discusses sex and things like that its very technical and sounds a lot like a sex-ed book.

[setos_puppy]

That's cool.

For an Ace I know I'm pretty sex-positive and pretty informed about things. I watch porn - even if only for the lulz, I read and write about sex (though I tend to research it like woah and ask horribly personal questions to people since I have nothing to go on, and I make lots of innuendo jokes. I'm told I "pass" as a sexual very well, which makes me giggle. Because really, ew.

[ersatz_sailor]

author, are you me??? XD
My friends are constantly puzzled by the fact that I'm an asexual.... ....who wants to open a super cool, feminist, sex-positive sex shop in my country/city. XD
I also consider myself gay and oogle at celebrities*cough*CHRIS COLFER*cough* so a lot of sexual friends try to tell me im not "a real asexual." :P
Loved this fic. Dont think I'd ever read an asexy!Kurt fic but it truly makes sense and would totally fit in canon. so awesome!!! :)