The wrong game.
A friend of Anat, JH, can be a very difficult woman to deal with. Once she gets her head stuck on something it aint movin'. You'd almost think she was a man.
One day she met a man. She liked him. He had money, they had similar interests. Apearently he liked her, and maybe he liked dificult women. She was attractive, great body ... thin, but not pretty.
On the first date. He showed up at the door and she was immediately mad at him. Not only that but she never forgave him. and held it against him continiously, but never hold him why. From that point on she wouldnt let him do anything right, or at least not for long.
"he was going to have to make it up to me, before i have sex with him." And she would push him away, and force him to come back to her. And he did too, but not for long. When they would meet, she would say to us, "If he does ...., and this .... and that I will forgive him (because of the context what she expected would be obvious."
And it may have been obvious to her, and maybe obvious to you too. But it wasnt obvious to me, or to Anat.
Anyway, as i was saying it wasnt long befor he just stopped calling. She was upset because,"Its up to him to call me." We didnt think so. They would pass and she would ignore him, and couldnt figure out why he wouldnt come over and talk to her.
Its sad that sometime we get caught up into the game we are trying to play instead of enjoying life is it was ment to be.
Oh, I almost forgot (i did actually), What did he do that she never forgave him for and ruined her romance? When he show up at the door he didnt have a huge bouquet of flowers and a dress (that fits no less) for her to wear out that evening.
Anyway... I think i am off ...
One day she met a man. She liked him. He had money, they had similar interests. Apearently he liked her, and maybe he liked dificult women. She was attractive, great body ... thin, but not pretty.
On the first date. He showed up at the door and she was immediately mad at him. Not only that but she never forgave him. and held it against him continiously, but never hold him why. From that point on she wouldnt let him do anything right, or at least not for long.
"he was going to have to make it up to me, before i have sex with him." And she would push him away, and force him to come back to her. And he did too, but not for long. When they would meet, she would say to us, "If he does ...., and this .... and that I will forgive him (because of the context what she expected would be obvious."
And it may have been obvious to her, and maybe obvious to you too. But it wasnt obvious to me, or to Anat.
Anyway, as i was saying it wasnt long befor he just stopped calling. She was upset because,"Its up to him to call me." We didnt think so. They would pass and she would ignore him, and couldnt figure out why he wouldnt come over and talk to her.
Its sad that sometime we get caught up into the game we are trying to play instead of enjoying life is it was ment to be.
Oh, I almost forgot (i did actually), What did he do that she never forgave him for and ruined her romance? When he show up at the door he didnt have a huge bouquet of flowers and a dress (that fits no less) for her to wear out that evening.
Anyway... I think i am off ...