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Just told my mom I wanted to adopt a child before I had one from my body. She said that I should have a REAL baby first, "from my loins". She said that she won't accept a child that I adopted.
*crying* What's the big deal? Why can't she accept an adopted child as her grandchild?
I don't get it...Millions of kids are sold away into the shitty foster system, abused and everything, why wait to adopt a child? Why should I be selfish like that and have my own when I can help someone else?
God, it doesn't have to come out of you for you to have a bond with it. A mother/daughter or mother/son bond.
I just don't understand how people can be selfish like that...And now I'm afraid if I do adopt a child, if she'll hate me and hate the child, and we'll grow distant and everything. And then the kid will ask where his grandma is and I'll have to tell him that she wants nothing to do with him and can't love him.
Makes me sad. God, just...so sad.
*crying* What's the big deal? Why can't she accept an adopted child as her grandchild?
I don't get it...Millions of kids are sold away into the shitty foster system, abused and everything, why wait to adopt a child? Why should I be selfish like that and have my own when I can help someone else?
God, it doesn't have to come out of you for you to have a bond with it. A mother/daughter or mother/son bond.
I just don't understand how people can be selfish like that...And now I'm afraid if I do adopt a child, if she'll hate me and hate the child, and we'll grow distant and everything. And then the kid will ask where his grandma is and I'll have to tell him that she wants nothing to do with him and can't love him.
Makes me sad. God, just...so sad.