Friends
Why does it seem I don't have any friends?
One reason I don't have super close friends is because I'm shy, and it takes me awhile to get to know someone.
I've always had problems making friends that are girls. I either think I'm not cool enough for them, or for some reason we just don't get along real well.
And I thought I had alot of guy friends...but that feels like it's kinda changing. What always seems to happen is that the guy will start liking me, he makes me decide whether or not I want a relationship, most of the time I don't because I don't feel the exact ways he does, and then when I say no, our friendship seperates and we're not close, and they don't wanna hangout b/c it'd be awkward. Why can't we just be friends?
Does anyone have any advice for me?
One reason I don't have super close friends is because I'm shy, and it takes me awhile to get to know someone.
I've always had problems making friends that are girls. I either think I'm not cool enough for them, or for some reason we just don't get along real well.
And I thought I had alot of guy friends...but that feels like it's kinda changing. What always seems to happen is that the guy will start liking me, he makes me decide whether or not I want a relationship, most of the time I don't because I don't feel the exact ways he does, and then when I say no, our friendship seperates and we're not close, and they don't wanna hangout b/c it'd be awkward. Why can't we just be friends?
Does anyone have any advice for me?