Everytime there's an LJ flist cut
I got hurt somehow >.<
Even when it was not done to me.
Honestly, I'd like to believe that stuff like this should not bother me, but somehow it did. And I'm kinda pissed off with myself O_O
Salwa, get a grip. They don't wanna be friends with you, but you can still be friends with them. Worrying about it won't help you in any way. Same goes to everyone in my f-list. Losing a friend on LJ doesn't mean you're losing a friend in real life. There is still a different between LJ and real life.
I just hope whatever the reason friends cut were made will not jeopardize the friendship in real life. Cuz as much as I can take it (almost immune to one way relationship by now), I'm almost sure 90% of my f-list can't take that kinda thing.
That doesn't mean I don't like people who do regular friends cut. I might need to do just that one day too. But I hope I won't have to do that.
p/s: This might sound depressing after several flailing post, but I'm ok XD Just to make a reminder to myself about these kinda things ^^
Even when it was not done to me.
Honestly, I'd like to believe that stuff like this should not bother me, but somehow it did. And I'm kinda pissed off with myself O_O
Salwa, get a grip. They don't wanna be friends with you, but you can still be friends with them. Worrying about it won't help you in any way. Same goes to everyone in my f-list. Losing a friend on LJ doesn't mean you're losing a friend in real life. There is still a different between LJ and real life.
I just hope whatever the reason friends cut were made will not jeopardize the friendship in real life. Cuz as much as I can take it (almost immune to one way relationship by now), I'm almost sure 90% of my f-list can't take that kinda thing.
That doesn't mean I don't like people who do regular friends cut. I might need to do just that one day too. But I hope I won't have to do that.
p/s: This might sound depressing after several flailing post, but I'm ok XD Just to make a reminder to myself about these kinda things ^^