Back on Track
Hullo everyone~!
I think its been years that I haven't updated my blog! Wow, talk about laziness and procastination! lol, I'm just kidding. But actually, true that. Mostly busy and procastination.
The thing is, I've always had ideas in my head and kinda want to write blog or journals, but I've been so busy with live. (Well, mostly because my work is becoming more busy and there's so much things to do at home. Especially, after I was married!
Yea! I know right! I am not single anymore and I am currently married!
For those who follow on my facebook and instagram, they know what are my current life stories are.
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So yeah, I was married last year, on the 13th May 2017! Guess what, the date is actually one of the historical date for Malaysians. It is because when the 'Tragedi 13 Mei' happened. For those who do not know what was I talking about, u can refer more to this link to know more:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/13_May_Incident
It just coinsidently happen for us to get married on that day. There is 2 reasons: First, it is because the imam wasn't available on the date that we want which is a week after 13th may. Secondly, 13th May is on Saturday which is almost everyone is free that time, because mostly our friends are working.
So, we got married in United states. Akad nikah (solemnization only). The reason because we did our marriage in United states are because we do not have time to go back to our home country Malaysia.. And it is also because to have the proper solemnization in Malaysia is we must have to attend like a marriage conference for 2 days and we do not have time for that because we both currently have work un United states and we only can go back for 1 to 2 weeks only. Talk about less vacation we got each year! Well mostly its my company. THey just gave me 1 week vacation per year equals to 40 hours per year. I know, crazy right? Urgh, gonna talk about that later on my journal. Just rants, hahaha!
Okay,, back on to the reasons why we were married in US.
Secondly, there are a few requirements have to be done before getting officially married in Malaysia. We must go to the government hospitals to get the HIV tests and basically more paperwork to be done.
So imagine that, can you finish all of the documents, the tests, and the marriage conference in merely just 2 weeks?
No way!!
So that is why we were finally made our decision to get married in US. No HIV test, no marriage conference.
Alhamdulillah the ceremony went well. Honestly, the muslim way to get married is actually easy. People tend to make things difficult and that is why they think to get married is so hard but it is actually not. Well, of course, after you get married, it is not really easy because life changes. You have more responsibilities to do.
So, finally, we are here!
And we also did our reception in Malaysia on July last year. THat is also the most memorable moments in my life. Friends and family are with me during my wedding. :) Got to meet my family and friends after all those years. Especially my aunts, uncles and cousins , I haven;t seen them for ages because I didn't celebrated Raya Aidilfitri in Malaysia for 7 years already! Wow....
Currently, I am happy with my life. To be able to live with my husband. Of course, life is sometimes is not perfect and we have several ups and downs in our life. But Alhamdulillah with both of our parents blessings, we are good. :)
And that is all for now, hahaha. I will try to update more in the future. I hope....
Wow, for all these years, finally i have the urge to update. hahaha.