Honesty
Okay this post something that I believe I need to say otherwise I just might burst!
There will always be someone that doesnt like you. Someone that disagrees with you. Someone that thinks negative thoughts about you. Someone that just doesnt know you. Someone that doesnt want to know you. Someone that isn't happy with you. And guess what?? Thats life bitches!
You will very rarely find someone that likes you and who you are all the time, no matter what you do. And if you do then you are very lucky or very oblivious. If you kill someone and you have someone tell u it was the right thing to do no matter what the issue was and says they have no bad reaction to this news at any time...then gtfo.
The reason I say some of this is because I came across someones situation and pretty much told them that there were going about all wrong and need to change it before any major mistakes come along. This person knows who they are. If you are not mentioning certain things just to avoide an argument and think its better to ask for forgiveness once caught...fuck you. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships...and Im talking complese 100 percent honest about everything and anything.
Stop hiding behind half truthes and lies by ommison cause ITS STILL LYING. For example. Jamie and Josh are dating. Josh tells Jamie 'Im going out to dinner with some friends be home late' Jamie says okay and thats that...BUT Josh is actually going to dinner with his friends plus a girl he KNOWS James doesn like and plans on spending time with her. BUT rather than be honest and say, 'hey Jessie is gonna be there as well' he just leaves that part out. Now is this right?? I mean he could honestly get away with it. She doesnt talk to Jessie so its not like shes going to fine out through her...BUT what if she does fine out, ask one of the friends how dinner was last night and they are like it was great and informs her that Jessie was there. Now Jamie confronts Josh and Josh instead of telling the truth comes out with another lies'I have no idea she was gonna be there she just showed up and it would have been rude of me to just leave'...BULL SHIT. Wanna know how this all could have been avoided??
HONESTLY. Be man/woman enough to say 'Hey Jessie and I are friends and we're going out to dinner with friends. I know you dont like her and you can come if you want, but I just wanted you to be aware she was going to be there." Yeah there might be some arguements but at least you were honest and not lying and hiding everything from the person.
Maybe Im asking too much of this person. Maybe im asking too much of certian bitches...w/e.
RAWR..TBC at a later date!
There will always be someone that doesnt like you. Someone that disagrees with you. Someone that thinks negative thoughts about you. Someone that just doesnt know you. Someone that doesnt want to know you. Someone that isn't happy with you. And guess what?? Thats life bitches!
You will very rarely find someone that likes you and who you are all the time, no matter what you do. And if you do then you are very lucky or very oblivious. If you kill someone and you have someone tell u it was the right thing to do no matter what the issue was and says they have no bad reaction to this news at any time...then gtfo.
The reason I say some of this is because I came across someones situation and pretty much told them that there were going about all wrong and need to change it before any major mistakes come along. This person knows who they are. If you are not mentioning certain things just to avoide an argument and think its better to ask for forgiveness once caught...fuck you. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships...and Im talking complese 100 percent honest about everything and anything.
Stop hiding behind half truthes and lies by ommison cause ITS STILL LYING. For example. Jamie and Josh are dating. Josh tells Jamie 'Im going out to dinner with some friends be home late' Jamie says okay and thats that...BUT Josh is actually going to dinner with his friends plus a girl he KNOWS James doesn like and plans on spending time with her. BUT rather than be honest and say, 'hey Jessie is gonna be there as well' he just leaves that part out. Now is this right?? I mean he could honestly get away with it. She doesnt talk to Jessie so its not like shes going to fine out through her...BUT what if she does fine out, ask one of the friends how dinner was last night and they are like it was great and informs her that Jessie was there. Now Jamie confronts Josh and Josh instead of telling the truth comes out with another lies'I have no idea she was gonna be there she just showed up and it would have been rude of me to just leave'...BULL SHIT. Wanna know how this all could have been avoided??
HONESTLY. Be man/woman enough to say 'Hey Jessie and I are friends and we're going out to dinner with friends. I know you dont like her and you can come if you want, but I just wanted you to be aware she was going to be there." Yeah there might be some arguements but at least you were honest and not lying and hiding everything from the person.
Maybe Im asking too much of this person. Maybe im asking too much of certian bitches...w/e.
RAWR..TBC at a later date!