Jun 24, 2013 22:37
To your own understanding, what is a listener to you?
im so sorry for the random question it's just that my best friend #3 confesses while we were in the middle of reminiscing our old moments when we were still in the previous high school years and she said "when we went to cafeteria to eat lunch, me and (insert two other best friends here) would silently compete to who's going to sit beside you at our table" and then it was just like it's just a random fact to her i didn't never notice in my whole life. and when i asked her why, she said it's bc i'm a listener.. and would always listen to other's story or whatever not just like my other bessies that when they talk to each other they would just end up in silence.
i'm seriously flattered by this.. and.. i just want to asked you guys this. bc..
bc
bc i really don't feel myself being listener.. i would just do what a normal friend does.. like listening to one's story.. sometimes i won't give comments but i make sure the one telling me his/her story knows i'm listening..
was that really a listener?
omg what am i doing
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