I can't ignore this anymore...

Jan 30, 2006 16:12

This is my declaration of war. I have more evidence than I can refute, and I won't lie to myself and pretend you are still acting like my best friend should. You complain about things that are small in comparison to your faults. You disrespect my girlfriend without giving her a chance. You have lied to me. YOU LIED TO ME. I have asked others, and they have confirmed that for me. I am tired of your bullshit. You will have to change if you want to be my friend anymore. Your time has come, Joe Buchholz.
This is my supporting evidence:
(Be warned, this is extremely long)

Joe The All Pro: So... what's this I hear about you think I hate you?
Buchheit the kid: Would you like to talk about it?
Joe The All Pro: I think I'd like an explanation of it, sure.
Buchheit the kid: Well
Buchheit the kid: Thats certainly a bit unexpected to hear from you
Buchheit the kid: I thought you were the one who knew all of what was going on
Joe The All Pro: Well, I did have to ask Ace to figure out what was up with you. I thought you've been avoiding me.
Buchheit the kid: So Ace has been spying for you
Buchheit the kid: Oh well
Joe The All Pro: Not spying...
Joe The All Pro: He said check this out and gave me the link to the picture that says you'd never know he hates me or something like that.
Joe The All Pro: And I was confused as hell.
Joe The All Pro: Because I gave you as straight up an answer I could when you asked me at the party... in fact, I really regret moving out... because I feel like I lost a great friend that was easy to talk to.
Buchheit the kid: I don't recall getting a straight up answer about why you moved out, so indulge me
Buchheit the kid: Why exactly did you move out?
Joe The All Pro: And then when we've come into contact, I was trying to be nice, but you seemed to not want to believe I was actually talking to you.
Joe The All Pro: Well...
Joe Th
e All Pro: It's mostly about Danielle. I had told you she was tearing us apart. I couldn't stand her, and I was only nice to her atthe party, because I figured no one else would be. She isn't very popular, as you probably know. Imean, among the people we know at home.
Joe The All Pro: And I guess it was just a mixture of other shit, like how you'd never go to the store, I always bought shit, and you'd eat it. And then Nate and I found some stuff you'd been hoarding, and that pissed us off. Especially when you said you didn't want us eating your stuff?
Buchheit the kid: Ok, I'll answer to those individually
Joe The All Pro: Number one, bitte.
Buchheit the kid: 1: I've always been supportive of you when YOU had a girfriend
Buchheit the kid: I admit I was inconsiderate
Buchheit the kid: I KNOW that
Buchheit the kid: We should have respected your space more
Buchheit the kid: I know I was at fault there
Joe The All Pro: Alright. Well, I guess that leads to another question... have I had any girlfriends that threatened our friendship? I'm mad because you havea girlfriend. Shit, I'm happy for you. But her.... she was a bitch to me a lot.
Joe The All Pro: *I'm NOT mad you have a gf.
Buchheit the kid: No, none of your girls have threatened our relationship
Joe The All Pro: Damn. I got ahead of myself.
Buchheit the kid: By the same token, I haven't ever been worried about being second in your line of importance
Joe The All Pro: Because I would respect if one of my girlfriends had created issues... you'd never have to be around her.
Buchheit the kid: I ALWAYS knew that some day you'd find someone that would best me as far as importance goes
Joe The All Pro: Yeah, but her importance isn't tied to your importance. You don't get compared.
Buchheit the kid: And, if I recall, she WAS nice to you at first, I even asked her to be, and she agreed.
Joe The All Pro: Friendship is on a totally different plane. And she's got to be able to get along with my friends. Otherwise, she's just going to be some fun.
Buchheit the kid: It was only after you were...I guess "inconsiderate" is the word
Buchheit the kid: That she stopped trying
Joe The All Pro: What did I do wrong?
Buchheit the kid: You even told me you weren't going to give her a chance
Joe The All Pro: When was I inconsiderate?
Buchheit the kid: You never gave her a chance
Joe The All Pro: But what did I DO to her that made her start treating me like shit, which actualy started the first time she walked in that door.
Joe The All Pro: "Fuckin Catholics. Oh it's not you, it's all christians, they're stupid." I remember that exact line.
Buchheit the kid: Joe, you make jokes about everyone.
Buchheit the kid: At THEIR expense
Joe The All Pro: That wasn't a joke, buddy.
Joe The All Pro: She MEANT it.
Buchheit the kid: Yeah, she's antichristian
Joe The All Pro: Uh huh.
Buchheit the kid: I told her to keep her trap shut about that from then on
Joe The All Pro: She started throwing stones first, buddy.
Buchheit the kid: Bull
Buchheit the kid: You didn't like her from the moment I said her name, because of some preconcieved notion you had about her
Joe The All Pro: You just agreed she said that.
Buchheit the kid: I KNOW she said that
Joe The All Pro: It wasn't preconceived for no reason/
Buchheit the kid: I'm not denying OR excusing it in the least
Buchheit the kid: Well, care to tell me why it was preconcieved?
Joe The All Pro: It's not I hadn't ever talked with her before. She was saying shit to me before I even knew her name. Probably because Andrew who she dated was one of my best friends at the time. And he had plenty to tell me of what she was like first hand. And I won't even go into her reputation. A reputation means a lot, even if that's not necessarily fair.
Joe The All Pro: If someone has a bad rep, they obviously did something to get there. And some people never change.
Buchheit the kid: And others do
Buchheit the kid: So, fair enough
Buchheit the kid: You won't accept her, no matter what
Buchheit the kid: FINE
Buchheit the kid: Its not like I said you had to like her
Joe The All Pro: But I'll try to look over any "preconceieved" notions I have...
Buchheit the kid: Oh whatever Joe
Buchheit the kid: You won't change just for me
Joe The All Pro: I can be a big boy, even ifshe can't be a big girl. Who's to say I won't? You think I don't miss you as a friend? You're making a big fucking assumption there.
Buchheit the kid: Well, it doesn't seem to me that someone who's supposed to be my best friend would just move out on me without a SINGLE WORD and lie to me to cover it up
Joe The All Pro: We were both wrong, I got that.
Buchheit the kid: Yeah, I'm not saying I'm blameless
Joe The All Pro: Yeah... that's regretted, too.
Joe The All Pro: And if it's any consolation, I'm sorry about that...
Buchheit the kid: Well, that makes me feel a little better
Joe The All Pro: Well, I just don't want us to be all bland with each other, opr pretend we don't exist.
Joe The All Pro: But I guess at the time, I had gotten caught up with everything... Nate wasn't being your best friend then, either. He agreed full-heatedly, cuz he wasn't happy with you either. Probably just as steamed atsome of your actions as I was.
Joe The All Pro: And all our other friends thought it was a good idea... and don't be mad at them. I probably exaggerated slightly. I mean, obviously I was pissed. So I tend to do that.
Buchheit the kid: Well I sure had reason to be pissed as well
Joe The All Pro: And then my parents told me I NEED to move out if I wasn't having a successful living experience...
Joe The All Pro: And then finally, I decided to go through with it. But I knwe you'd be pissed, so I kept avoiding it to the last minute.
Joe The All Pro: ANYWAY.
Joe The All Pro: I'm running late for class. We can finish this later.
Joe The All Pro: See ya.
Buchheit the kid: Yeah

Natejutsu: still sick?
Buchheit the kid: Yep
Natejutsu: sucks man
Buchheit the kid: Yeah
Buchheit the kid: By the way
Buchheit the kid: Joe started talking to me today
Natejutsu: bout?
Buchheit the kid: And I'm more than weirded out
Natejutsu: that is odd
Buchheit the kid: You wanna read the whole thing?
Buchheit the kid: Or do you not care to
Buchheit the kid: ?
Natejutsu: yea I do
Buchheit the kid: ok
Buchheit the kid wants to directly connect.
Natejutsu is now directly connected.

***INSERT PREVIOUSLY SHOWN CONVO WITH JOE***

Natejutsu: I loled at that
Natejutsu: I have a few questions if your up for them, I know your sick and all
Buchheit the kid: Sure
Buchheit the kid: Lets have it
Natejutsu: 1. Why in the world did you stand joe during this conversation, his hostlity towards you, not to mention his arrogance is sickening
Buchheit the kid: Yeah, I'm aware he's an arrogant fuckoff
Natejutsu: 2. Ho much of what he said sod you think is true? Because I can tell you he "exaggerated" on a bit of it
Natejutsu: Why'd you take that though? I mean you don't have to anymore and if he came to you being that Arrogant, then something is gravely ill with that boy
Buchheit the kid: Well, I DON'T recall Danielle being a bitch to him right off the bat
Buchheit the kid: And I sure as hell know he was an ass to her from the start
Buchheit the kid: He even TOLD ME he wasn't going to give her a chance
Natejutsu: Yea I know that
Buchheit the kid: As for why I took that off of him...
Buchheit the kid: I dunno
Buchheit the kid: I suppose its because I don't know if I'm in the right or if he is
Natejutsu: but I just find in interesting that you engaged in conversation whereas I would have ended that conversation at the first sign of hostility
Natejutsu: Yea
Natejutsu: I suppose
Buchheit the kid: Well, his first statement was hostile, so thats about as far as it would have gone with you, eh?
Buchheit the kid: lol
Natejutsu: Thats usually as far as it goes with us nowadays anyway
Natejutsu: Joe The All Pro: And then my parents told me I NEED to move out if I wasn't having a successful living experience...
Natejutsu: That's bull
Natejutsu: it was HIS idea to move out on you
Natejutsu: and his parents wanted him to talk it over with you
Natejutsu: They didn't quite think it was right from what I gathered being at his house the times I was and hearing them talk
Buchheit the kid: Well, I also know he's exaggerated about some of the stuff, but like I said, I don't know how much, and I don't know if all in all he has a valid point
Natejutsu: Well allow me to pick more points out
Buchheit the kid: Go ahead
Natejutsu: as stated before Joe The All Pro: And then finally, I decided to go through with it. But I knwe you'd be pissed, so I kept avoiding it to the last minute.
Natejutsu: He talked to me about what Ace Said the other night
Natejutsu: I don't understand why he's approach you about it
Buchheit the kid: Yeah, me neither
Natejutsu: Ace told him how it was you aren't mad at him per se, but you wont come crawling back because you didnt do anything wrong
Natejutsu: and apparently Joe finds this unacceptable?
Buchheit the kid: Well, I never said I didn't do ANYTHING wrong
Buchheit the kid: But yeah,
Buchheit the kid: I'm NOT gonna kiss his ass
Buchheit the kid: Yeah
Buchheit the kid: lol
Natejutsu: Joe The All Pro: Because I gave you as straight up an answer I could when you asked me at the party... in fact, I really regret moving out... because I feel like I lost a great friend that was easy to talk to.
Natejutsu: He even told me he didnt give you an answer at the party in question
Natejutsu: I tried to get him to tell you
Buchheit the kid: Haha
Natejutsu: but he refused
Buchheit the kid: The more I find out, the more I think that Joe's a backstabbing liar...
Natejutsu: He still complains about you in videogames
Natejutsu: still complains about you being arrogant
Natejutsu: still complains about you being cheap
Buchheit the kid: *sigh*
Buchheit the kid: I'll bet he does
Buchheit the kid: So, tell me about Joe's #2 complaint
Buchheit the kid: I thought I always offered food to you two when I brought it in...
Buchheit the kid: and I know I didn't go buy stuff, cause I didn't have money
Natejutsu: Yea well you know Joe
Natejutsu: I offered food all the time too
Natejutsu: but he always took it
Buchheit the kid: But I thought I always offered what I had to you two
Natejutsu: and complained when we ate his
Natejutsu: you did
Buchheit the kid: Well, that makes me feel better
Buchheit the kid: Did you two find a "stash" and get pissed off?
Natejutsu: I think one time we founda box of cereal under your desk and were like "Omg hax! he are having stash :O!"
Buchheit the kid: DUDE
Buchheit the kid: That was my chocolate lucky charms
Buchheit the kid: and I ALWAYS offered some to you guys when I pulled it out
Buchheit the kid: and its not like it was hidden...
Natejutsu: Yea he ate some anyway
Buchheit the kid: lol
Buchheit the kid: I don't care
Buchheit the kid: Nevermind the popcorn I made all the time and shared...
Buchheit the kid: XD
Natejutsu: he'd probably forgotten about that
Buchheit the kid: Probably
Buchheit the kid: Ingrateful ass that he is
Buchheit the kid: But tell me,
Buchheit the kid: I know I did wrong in places
Natejutsu: well yea, who didnt
Buchheit the kid: What were my faults, and to what extent?
Natejutsu: I don't think it matters because in the end between the three of us
Natejutsu: it all evens out
Natejutsu: I won't hold grudges against you two
Natejutsu: and to me it doesnt matter you'd have to take that up with Joe
Natejutsu: if you want to know what he thinks
Buchheit the kid: Mmm
Buchheit the kid: Well, I know you're not taking sides in this
Buchheit the kid: But you know odds are Joe will assume you're with me in this issue
Natejutsu: he knows I'm not
Buchheit the kid: Ok
Natejutsu: or atleast he better
Buchheit the kid: I just don't want you to have to suffer because of this
Natejutsu: because I think I've made it evident
Buchheit the kid: Haha
Buchheit the kid: Why? Do you bash me in front of him? XD
Natejutsu: If Joe chooses to make me suffer he will pay for it 10 fold I promise
Natejutsu: I bash him and defend you when hes unreasonable
Buchheit the kid: Ok
Buchheit the kid: I understand
Buchheit the kid: Just don't bash me too hard, ok?
Buchheit the kid: lol
Natejutsu: lol ok
Buchheit the kid: Do you mind if I quote parts of this convo to Joe?
Buchheit the kid: Cause just me "saying so" won't prove shit
Natejutsu: sure
Natejutsu: I mean I have nothing to hide
Natejutsu: I don't get why he's so antaganistic lately
Buchheit the kid: I dunno
Buchheit the kid: Maybe he wants to break me and make me come back to him?
Natejutsu: doubt it
Buchheit the kid: Seriously though
Natejutsu: i dont know what he's trieing to do
Natejutsu: I think he's upset with me
Natejutsu: and might want to repair things with you
Buchheit the kid: The more I hear, the more pissed at him I get
Buchheit the kid: He's lied OFF HIS ASS
Buchheit the kid: to mw
Buchheit the kid: *me
Natejutsu: If I were you dude
Natejutsu: I'd just ignore him
Natejutsu: because things aren't going to go anywhere because of his disposition
Buchheit the kid: I suppose so
Buchheit the kid: Heh
Buchheit the kid: At this rate, I doubt we'll ever be friends again
Natejutsu: Unless he stops being an ass and being so hostile about the situation I agree
Natejutsu: He needs to put it down
Natejutsu: stop being mad
Natejutsu: and let it go
Natejutsu: and it is until he decides to let it go and realizes that what happened doesnt matter he's going to be mad which will hinder your ability to repair the relationship
Natejutsu direct connection is closed.
Buchheit the kid: Yeah
Natejutsu: anyway we're going to gamers now
Natejutsu: so
Natejutsu: We'll be back
Natejutsu is away at 3:45:14 PM.
Buchheit the kid: Seeya

You have lied to me. You have broken our trust. I knew you since 7th grade, and we were best friends. I can't believe you'd treat me so badly. You are not the person I thought you were.If you want to be my friend anymore, You WILL accept Danielle and treat her with respect. You WILL respect me and my rights. YOU WILL ACT AS A FRIEND SHOULD. Or we will never be friends again. Your aggresion will not go unanswered...I WILL TELL EVERYONE WHO WILL LISTEN about what you have done to me. I will ruin you by ruining your reputation. And then we'll damn-well see if people can change, you arrogant backstabbing son of a bitch.

If anyone is reading this, and you are on my side in this, please comment, I'd greatly appreciate the written support.

-Much Love to all but my enemy,
Buchheit, the Saint of Spades
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