What to do when your Trainer speaks to you
First I would like to make a formal written apology for my mistake. I am sorry, Sir, for my rudeness and disrespect when you called for me earlier today and I did not respond immediately. I will listen more carefully in the future to avoid such disrespect.
Knowing what to do when being called upon by your Trainer is a fundamental skill. It is even more fundamental to know the etiquette for being called upon while in a conversation with others. Having knowledge in this skill will allow me to show respect and honor to Sir. This knowledge will also allow me to show dedication and a focused awareness on service when being called upon while in the middle of a conversation with others.
If Sir were to call me while speaking with another Top I would give an apology and excuse myself from the conversation immediately. By giving an apology I show respect to the Top that I was having conversation with as well showing the good manners that are expected of me by my Trainer. Pardoning myself from the conversation shows loyalty my Trainer and a focus on service.
When being called by Sir while having a conversation with Yona it is very simple to back out of the conversation. I could just hold up my “one moment” finger and answer Sir right then. I could even just pause in the conversation saying, “yes Sir.” She would realize that Sir requires my attention. This is also how I could handle interrupting/pausing a conversation with another submissive/bottom in the lifestyle. The reason I can do this with Yona and others in the lifestyle is because most know the power dynamic and that the Trainer/Top come first.
There is a rare circumstance when a vanilla person is aware of the power dynamic between Sir and I. When being called by Sir, I would give an acknowledging nod allowing him to know that I had heard him. Then, following proper etiquette, I would wait for the end of a sentence before apologizing and excusing myself from conversation. After I have properly excused myself I can respond to Sir. In these rare circumstance some people are aware of the 24/7 service that is given and know that I follow the needs of my Trainer.
The most common type of vanilla person I would be talking to is one that would be unaware of the power dynamic. I would nod to Sir letting him know that I heard him. I would wait for either an end of a sentence or slight break in the conversation. I would give an apology and excuse myself from the conversation to answer Sir. I would give the apology to show formal manners to ease the person’s mind about me running off in the middle of the conversation.
Being able to carry on a conversation and excusing yourself properly from that conversation when you are called upon by your Trainer is very important skill. This skill is pertinent to serving while the proper etiquette and manners is a must with Sir. I hope that reviewing these steps on how to respond to Sir when being called upon while in a conversation will help improve my focus. While having a conversation, it is important that I be able to focus on Sir’s needs above anything else allowing myself to be able to serve at a moments notice.