Slavin away
Cam has been working so many extra days lately, that i decided yesterday was going to be a spoil Cam day.
So i spent the day making sure he did nothing all day and made sure he relaxed all day.
So i gave him Breakfast in bed about 10:30 after he slept in a bit, a full big cooked breakfast and coffee. I followed this up with a massage for about 1 hour.
I made Coffee all day when he wanted it and got snacks on demand.
He got to choose all movies so we watched "Enter the Dragon", "out for justice", "if it all goes wrong" with a few "Dead like me" episodes. (except for dead like me this was the hardest part of the day, to watch crappy movies and not complain:) )
I cooked a 2 course meal of his choosing and he napped in the arvo while i grocery shopped.
We spent the evening playing games before watching some new scrubs in snuggled in bed.
While that sounds crap for me it really wasn't. Sometimes its just nice to go to alot of effort in making sure the person your with is reminded how much you appreciate them and days like yesterday are fully and completely indulgent and days like that give you a chance to "refuel".
I enjoyed watching Cam unwind, relax and just go purr, so while i certainly don't do it often it really is a fantastic way to spend the day whichever end of the day your on, giving or receiving.
Also making the day about someone else rather than demanding it be about you is also a good thing every now and again and doesn't do anyone any harm to let their ego have a break and do something nice for another person.
It was a good day :D
So i spent the day making sure he did nothing all day and made sure he relaxed all day.
So i gave him Breakfast in bed about 10:30 after he slept in a bit, a full big cooked breakfast and coffee. I followed this up with a massage for about 1 hour.
I made Coffee all day when he wanted it and got snacks on demand.
He got to choose all movies so we watched "Enter the Dragon", "out for justice", "if it all goes wrong" with a few "Dead like me" episodes. (except for dead like me this was the hardest part of the day, to watch crappy movies and not complain:) )
I cooked a 2 course meal of his choosing and he napped in the arvo while i grocery shopped.
We spent the evening playing games before watching some new scrubs in snuggled in bed.
While that sounds crap for me it really wasn't. Sometimes its just nice to go to alot of effort in making sure the person your with is reminded how much you appreciate them and days like yesterday are fully and completely indulgent and days like that give you a chance to "refuel".
I enjoyed watching Cam unwind, relax and just go purr, so while i certainly don't do it often it really is a fantastic way to spend the day whichever end of the day your on, giving or receiving.
Also making the day about someone else rather than demanding it be about you is also a good thing every now and again and doesn't do anyone any harm to let their ego have a break and do something nice for another person.
It was a good day :D