A wonderful couple!
During my trip in Thailand I met old friends from 3 years ago. She is Thai and very Dominant, he is Vietnamese (very subby) and living in the US.
He is planning to live in Thailand when he is retired in 2 years.
They met each other 4 years ago and in a very short time they were very close friends. So close, that he told her his plans for the future and the problems he was expecting when he is going to live in Thailand.
Both of them never talked about BDSM (they even did not think of it) in the past, till I told them what I was thinking about their way of living together. She started smiling and told me, that she never realized that their relation had a name. They are having there own rules. He never calls her Mistress, but Mrs. Tom and she calls him uncle.
She is the boss and decides what they are going to do or where to go.
4 years ago he was buying a big house for her and putted that house on her name.
3 years ago he gave her a Toyota 4-WD and changed the house and made it two times bigger, so she had space of her own.
He was not allowed to drive the car: you are too small for that was her argumentation.
It was 3 years ago I met them for the last time and I was very curious about their way of living now.
I am so happier then I ever was, he was telling me. She is my boss now and she gets more and control over me and I like it very much. I changed my last will in her favor, I pay her every month US $ 1.000,- (that is very much for Thailand).
We were going out together very often and every time he was surprising me, how he succeeded in getting her angry in front of other people, who even don’t know anything about their lifestyle.
The second time we went for a Thai massage he told very loudly that Mrs. Tom had to pay twice because of her weight. She was just looking at him and said I will take care for it, that I will have to pay half for you next time! The next day she told me, that he had to exercise two hours during the night to lose weight, without any resting time and the airco was turn off.
An other day we visited a Thai dance evening. He was playing was his fingers and told every one, that his fingers were not soft enough to dance like those Thai girls. She was just smiling and told him: I will teach you tonight. That night he had to stand still in the bedroom, with has hands turned around in front of him and his fingers spread. She turned a rope around his fingers at both hands and was hanging a Buddha statue at every hand. She was telling me that this exercise was very painful for him, but he can bow his fingers! I will go on with this, she told me laughing.
This are just some examples of there way of living.
It is like a game. He is joking every day and makes her angry, so he will get punished.
But, he cannot live without her anymore. Everything he has is hers now and he is happy.
The last week he told me that he wanted to buy a piece of land at the back site of his garden and build a small wooden Thai house on this piece of land.
I asked him why? His answer was just very simple:
I am thinking of the future. When Mrs. Tom don’t like me anymore and when she will throw me out of the house, then I can ask her if I am allowed to live in that house, so I can look at her every day.
In my eyes this is real submission.
He is planning to live in Thailand when he is retired in 2 years.
They met each other 4 years ago and in a very short time they were very close friends. So close, that he told her his plans for the future and the problems he was expecting when he is going to live in Thailand.
Both of them never talked about BDSM (they even did not think of it) in the past, till I told them what I was thinking about their way of living together. She started smiling and told me, that she never realized that their relation had a name. They are having there own rules. He never calls her Mistress, but Mrs. Tom and she calls him uncle.
She is the boss and decides what they are going to do or where to go.
4 years ago he was buying a big house for her and putted that house on her name.
3 years ago he gave her a Toyota 4-WD and changed the house and made it two times bigger, so she had space of her own.
He was not allowed to drive the car: you are too small for that was her argumentation.
It was 3 years ago I met them for the last time and I was very curious about their way of living now.
I am so happier then I ever was, he was telling me. She is my boss now and she gets more and control over me and I like it very much. I changed my last will in her favor, I pay her every month US $ 1.000,- (that is very much for Thailand).
We were going out together very often and every time he was surprising me, how he succeeded in getting her angry in front of other people, who even don’t know anything about their lifestyle.
The second time we went for a Thai massage he told very loudly that Mrs. Tom had to pay twice because of her weight. She was just looking at him and said I will take care for it, that I will have to pay half for you next time! The next day she told me, that he had to exercise two hours during the night to lose weight, without any resting time and the airco was turn off.
An other day we visited a Thai dance evening. He was playing was his fingers and told every one, that his fingers were not soft enough to dance like those Thai girls. She was just smiling and told him: I will teach you tonight. That night he had to stand still in the bedroom, with has hands turned around in front of him and his fingers spread. She turned a rope around his fingers at both hands and was hanging a Buddha statue at every hand. She was telling me that this exercise was very painful for him, but he can bow his fingers! I will go on with this, she told me laughing.
This are just some examples of there way of living.
It is like a game. He is joking every day and makes her angry, so he will get punished.
But, he cannot live without her anymore. Everything he has is hers now and he is happy.
The last week he told me that he wanted to buy a piece of land at the back site of his garden and build a small wooden Thai house on this piece of land.
I asked him why? His answer was just very simple:
I am thinking of the future. When Mrs. Tom don’t like me anymore and when she will throw me out of the house, then I can ask her if I am allowed to live in that house, so I can look at her every day.
In my eyes this is real submission.