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[sadasitseems]

It's been over a year since she died, and everyone I've dated after her has felt empty. Is it a fear of getting serious with someone and potentially losing them? Is it an inability? Is it the luck of the draw

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[msspooky7]

Aw *hug*. I'm sad that I never got the chance to meet her. She seemed like a very cool girl, and it saddens me that she is gone. I don't think I could ever come close to understanding that kind if pain, although I wish I could because then I might have something more meaningful to say.... I'm unfortunately not very good with words :\

I think it's normal that everything feels empty..even though it's been over a year now. That kind of pain doesn't just leave quickly, unfortunately. Those feelings, whatever they may be, with the people you have dated since aren't what you had with her, and they won't be. No one is alike, and feelings are always different. And as for the other questions.. I think that its normal for those questions to be swimming around in your head. I don't think it's inability, you are just simply not ready. And, as a friend I can only hope that someday you'll be able to find a person that you feel comfortable with! But, until then.... maybe continue the single life? And just hang out with friends, and surround yourself with the people that make you happy! :)