Continuation of a thought.

[sacryde]

As humans, it's our natural ability to become attached. Whether it's to people, things, memories, or moments, we all get attached. That's why there's no use trying to detach yourself from everything. Even if you try and remain unattached, the most it will ever be is a lie, because deep down, we all grow fond of things and come to care about them.

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[grimoire]

I wish it was easy for me to think like that... it's like... you're happy you at least got to know someone and you had/have someone like that in your life but sometimes you just can't stop being upset about it, even though you can't change it? I mean at least if we feel the same way. I am glad you have grew to think that way though, everything in life happens for a reason. It's good to try but sometimes things just end? but it doesn't mean it's a bad thing... ok most of the time, anyways.
You know though, it's funny you wrote that post now... recently I have been thinking about it. Earlier, it was hard for me to get attached to someone, even if I wanted to so I never forced myself. Then I met some people and noticed it's not such a bad thing... to a point. If you're attached to someone, everything you do with them seems even more fun, makes you more happy than it would with someone else? And even if it ends, it's still experience and memories. I just wish feelings wouldn't be so.. confusing, heh. But I guess, like i said, everything happens for a reason.Worse things happen, as long as you're happy and they're happy, it's all good, right?

Though it feels weird to write that comment, considering we grew apart for last year and how we even got into that argue... but even if we ever grow apart so much not to even want to talk with each other, or something, I will always consider you a special friend, just so you know *insert cheesy music here* We might not be as close as we used to but we still had a great time back then and helped each other? (or at least you helped me) so everything is worth it, even if it hurts sometimes.

This is roax btw (in case you don't realize and such comment from a stranger might creep you out).

[sacryde]

Yeah, feelings always mess everything up lol, at least when you're going through it. But when you look back on everything that happened, it makes a lot more sense. I know there are a lot of people that I've basically cut ties with in the last few years, a lot of them were people who I thought I'd be friends with forever. But at the same time.... people change, you know? If things change to the point where you no longer get along, sometimes it's better to just end it while you still have the happy memories. And even if it was someone that you really didn't want to part with, it still ends up better in the end because you both grow from it and you learn to be able to get along with people other than just them, if that makes sense.

Even if we've grown apart, you're still a special friend to me too. ♥ There were so many times where just talking to you made me less sad and helped me think through the things that were bothering me. You helped me get over a lot of things, and if we hadn't been friends before, I probably wouldn't be as happy as I am now. ♥ And you know, even if we've grown apart, it's not like our friendship has ended. It's just not as obvious and in-your-face. :)

I could tell~ hehe. I kind of knew from the type of username and the name you have listed as your name and the Grimmjow icon. :3 Your journal always has a certain vibe to it lol.

Oh but your new username.... does this mean you like Fairy Tail? :D

[grimoire]

Yeah, feeling pass but at least you have memories and experience. And yes, I couldn't agree more with you. I guess the part of being happy is to be able to let things go, even people when the time comes. (I'd write more but I am just too tired to write anything, and i would probably make a fool out of myself).

Aw, it makes me really glad to hear that since I can say the same about you so I am glad I could help at least a bit. Ah, very true. Friendship and bond are a bit more than just words, after all.

Rofl, really? I guess it's kinda cool then, haha. (I mean about the vibe thing).
... and yes, I love Fairy Tail! I am all hyped up for the current arc, it gets better and better. Though, I have been actually thinking of that username for awhile now but just recently I started catching up on FT episodes (Edolas, Island and Future arcs) and decided to go with it in the end, I have been kind of tired of being roax everywhere. (Though I am not that big of a fan of Grimoire Hearts, do not be mistaken, rofl).

[sacryde]

I think happiness is really just being able to be content, in the end. Like, if you can just be happy with what you have, even if it's not the best, then that's what really matters. If that makes sense. (I just got out from work so yeah not thinking straight lol)

Yeah, even in real life it's like that. I have some friends who I haven't really seen or talked to properly in years, but I still consider them dear friends, ya know? Because I feel like if I were to hang out with them all of a sudden, it would feel like a lot of time hadn't really passed. And that's kind of how it is with you, it's been forever since we really talked but it's still easy. At least for me. ^^;;

SEE! Even when we don't talk for a while we still wind up loving the same fandoms lmao. X'D I loooooove Fairy Tail so much it's not even funny. Though I've only gotten to the beginning of the S-Rank arc really but omg it's such an amazing series. ♥ There are so many awesome characters I can't even pick a favorite. XD But I really love Gajeel and Mystogan's characters. ♥ Oh, and Loke! XDDD I'm still really indecisive lmao.
Hmmm yeah Grimoire just sounds really really cool and it has your vibe. XD So I see why you changed it to that. It suits you bb. ♥

[grimoire]

It does make sense, but being happy with whatever you have is truly hard. You know how people rarely even realize they could have less than they have now, even if it's bad. People just want to have it easy and if they didn't learn stuff like that the hard way... D: But I do agree, people need to appreciate more what they have than want more because some don't even have that much. (Or they could end up with less than they have now, lol).

I can understand that. While I usually avoid people irl and try not to have contact with most of people i knew... i know that with some of them of them, i could meet after years and it wouldn't probably feel awkward in the end.... probably. I guess once you get close enough to someone, things like meeting even without talking in forever seem just... normal? Yes, it's same with me!

Because you konw what they say, great minds think alike haha. Me too, I am so addicted, and whenever i watch it, it just makes me happy because it includes so many positive feelings and just aww. I can't wait till you read (or watch?) more, that arc is quite awesome, minus the annoying Cana. Yeah oh god me too. I mean about the favourite character. It used to be Lucy and Natsu at first, then Lucy, Natsu, Gajeel... now I think Lucy is my fav with Gajeel being second close (I mean Gajeel is damn awesome, badass, perfect, amazing... you know the drill). Natsu dropped a few places due to being a shounen hero xD I love Mystogan so much, as well. The ending of Edolas arc was just... too much to handle. And yes Loke, too! And I also love Laxus... don't laugh. It;s not like it's unpredictable but.. rofl. I also really liked Juvia but recently I am getting way too annoyed with her obsession with Gray. Oh god, when it comes to my favourite fandoms, i love it/shuts up.
You know though, if you like FT so much, I think you should try reading Katekyo Hitman Reborn when you have some time (the manga though, don't touch the anime, it's terrible). It's not very similar to FT but these are my two favourite shounens, and two of my most favourite series overall. (And I think you'd really like Gokudera).
Aww, thank you! i was a bit worried people might not like it so i am glad to hear that!