Getting Angry
The way she loses her temper; there's only so much I can tolerate!
I want to aggregate all or her school files and she automatically
gets angry at me and assumes that I'll be moving her files to one
fragile hard drive.
she crosses a line when she is blames me for loosing previous data because of putting everything in one hard drive!
she crosses another line when she accuses me (repeatedly) that I'm going to do it when I haven't done anything yet!
she crosses another line by assuming that I cannot understand what she is saying by angrily repeating it over and over!
and she crosses another line by not even acknowledging what I'm trying to do!
ALL I WANT TO DO IS TO AGGREGATE ALL OF HER SCHOOL DATA SO THAT THE SAME INFORMATION CAN BE FOUND IN VARIOUS LOCATIONS!
Putting all the data into solely one location was not smart but you know what? if she had such a huge problem with it as much as she says, all she had to do is make a copy of it but she didn't. So what if she didn't know how to? whose fault is that? She should be responsible for her own data instead of placing all the responsibility and blame on me. I'm only trying to help and make things more organized.
THE HARD DRIVE BREAKING WAS AN ACCIDENT THAT NO ONE COULD FORSEE.
Now I know better than to put everything in one hard drive OBVIOUSLY, but of course in her eyes I don't have the ability to learn from mistakes.
well I snapped at her, not that it would make a difference but it
made me feel better.
I want to aggregate all or her school files and she automatically
gets angry at me and assumes that I'll be moving her files to one
fragile hard drive.
she crosses a line when she is blames me for loosing previous data because of putting everything in one hard drive!
she crosses another line when she accuses me (repeatedly) that I'm going to do it when I haven't done anything yet!
she crosses another line by assuming that I cannot understand what she is saying by angrily repeating it over and over!
and she crosses another line by not even acknowledging what I'm trying to do!
ALL I WANT TO DO IS TO AGGREGATE ALL OF HER SCHOOL DATA SO THAT THE SAME INFORMATION CAN BE FOUND IN VARIOUS LOCATIONS!
Putting all the data into solely one location was not smart but you know what? if she had such a huge problem with it as much as she says, all she had to do is make a copy of it but she didn't. So what if she didn't know how to? whose fault is that? She should be responsible for her own data instead of placing all the responsibility and blame on me. I'm only trying to help and make things more organized.
THE HARD DRIVE BREAKING WAS AN ACCIDENT THAT NO ONE COULD FORSEE.
Now I know better than to put everything in one hard drive OBVIOUSLY, but of course in her eyes I don't have the ability to learn from mistakes.
well I snapped at her, not that it would make a difference but it
made me feel better.