What to do... what to do?
I've been rather confused the past few days as to where I want... well to be quite frank, where I want my love life to go. I am tired of being alone, that I am certain of. I want to find someone who sees me for me. I do believe I have found that person, but the problem lies in the saying "you always want what you can't have". I believe that the person I want is someone I cannot have, and the person I can have is the one I don't really want. There is no doubt that I like Rich, but I think that the fact that I could have him if I wanted is the reason why I am not jumping after him. Is it possible that we are less attracted to someone who is someone you could EASILY have? If you could easily have them, where would the thrill of the chase be if there were no chase?
Looking back I don't think I could have ever dated Danny because of our many differences, and perhaps that is why I was attracted to him.
Is distance a legitimate factor in finding someone? Rich lives in Kendall, which is a good distance from me, and again, I like him but I think the fact that he is obtainable is where my lack of spark originates. Should I ignore that and continue to see him?
Looking back I don't think I could have ever dated Danny because of our many differences, and perhaps that is why I was attracted to him.
Is distance a legitimate factor in finding someone? Rich lives in Kendall, which is a good distance from me, and again, I like him but I think the fact that he is obtainable is where my lack of spark originates. Should I ignore that and continue to see him?