Dunno, but I spent *years* mentally beating myself up (and not in the good way) over the fact that I thought I couldn't be a good feminist and a masochist. My mom is a Dworkin-era feminist -- I love her, but sex-positive she ain't.
...I really need to write the "things I expect people know about me already" post for my LJ, don't I. So I don't have to feel sort of awkward about outing myself as kinky on random people's journals.
I've seen a bunch of Diego/Mia that really has some amount of power dynamics going that way, though little or none of it was actually any good. And there's a bunch of Gant/Lana noncon/dubcon. (When done well, I like Gant/Lana dubcon/mindfuck.)
Agreed on Phoenix and paper bags -- hell, when the quiet nun tops you, boy, you're really something.
I'm not fond of genderfuck slash->het because I don't usually like the implicit assumptions about gender. It's occasionally okay, but usually I need both halves of the couple to get flipped for it not to annoy me.
I know very little about SGA and House, so I will leave those alone.
...I really need to write the "things I expect people know about me already" post for my LJ, don't I. So I don't have to feel sort of awkward about outing myself as kinky on random people's journals.
I've seen a bunch of Diego/Mia that really has some amount of power dynamics going that way, though little or none of it was actually any good. And there's a bunch of Gant/Lana noncon/dubcon. (When done well, I like Gant/Lana dubcon/mindfuck.)
Agreed on Phoenix and paper bags -- hell, when the quiet nun tops you, boy, you're really something.
I'm not fond of genderfuck slash->het because I don't usually like the implicit assumptions about gender. It's occasionally okay, but usually I need both halves of the couple to get flipped for it not to annoy me.
I know very little about SGA and House, so I will leave those alone.
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