Drama over f/b......
Being unemployed and having plenty of free time in my hands, I find it amusing to cruise down facebook lane. It serves multiple purposes..... For starters, I get info on my favorite band, as well as photos, videos etc. The second reason I enjoy it, are the comments I read, on pics, on sings, statuses, and so on.....
But the drama sometimes that goes on..... oh, my..... And all of it evolves the band. Yes, I am MAD about the band, especially the singer, me and a few million other ladies (young or old).
But heaven forbid to start the "girlfriend" topic. Hell breaks loose. Well, not with everybody, but with some people/"fans". Cursing and evilness at its best (or is it worst?). Admittedly, the lady he was engaged to, did cause him bodily harm. But, that is all we heard of. She never spoke, never said anything, never gave explanation of the incident. And even he, he spoke of it as if it was something of everyday nature, like "my g/f cooked beans", no "drama", just a statement (which is to be admired, many would have resorted to vicious vocabulary against their g/f). And, truth be told, we were NEVER IN THEIR BED!!!! Do we actually know what had happened??? Yes, they were both using substances, they both admitted it... Other than that, we know nothing. He presents to the public a face of tenderness, caring, lovable..... Is he really like that???? Are we certain he does not abuse his partners??? Maybe he does not enjoy reading only Baudelaire or Poe, maybe he enjoys De Sade.... Who's to say he does not beat up, humiliate, destroy his partners????? Nobody....
And now, some tabloids, stir up havoc by writing that he is involved with a new lady. For the "fans", she is evil, gold-digger, ugly, and so on, and so forth.... From appearance point of view, I'm not crazy about her. Has nothing to do with bias. She tries to work as a model, her professional shots make her look cute. Her private photos, well, she's an everyday girl, and I would never would suggest her to be a model. She seems to enjoy posing in a certain way, looking over her nose while her head is dipped down, which reminds me of a friend of mine.... They should pose together, both in the same pose, and both with their black hair. I'm not going to comment on the "relationship", no "holding hand" pics, no official word... There may be one, there may be not. But "opportunistic" and "gold-digger"? Show me the evidence!!! Where are they? I haven't heard of anything, I haven't seen anything. Anything to say that she is after his fame, or that they indeed are together. Hear say from tabloids? And no pics.... This lady also is an old friend of the band.... Actually, she had interviewed the whole band, minus the singer, for their official site, back in 2005(?).... OK, I am known as the devil's advocate. I've said it before, I'll say it again. What if she works for them. Now the singer is the master mind behind all creative of the band. What if they plan band stuff together? Not unlikely.... And the photos taken of her leaving(?) his house around 10 in the morning??? OK, Assuming they are not dating, let us suppose that a lady who studies at day and has a night job as well (she's a waitress), has a limited time in her hands and uses/abuses any free time she gets. Well, that goes for everyone. A brief meeting before class, is not all that unlikely..... Of course, I am assuming things, I MAY BE TOTALLY WRONG..... But I enjoy this advocating thing......
And why nobody ever speaks about his first major and publicized relationship? I mean, come on, we could call her names as well, no??? Wasn't she the one who left him, taking the curtains from their apartment???? Bad, bad miss S.!!!!!
Honestly, gossiping about your favorite band/musician is fun. As long as you don't take it seriously.... Some fans seem to think they can claim that person for their own, put him/her on a pedestal and make him/her live the life they dream of..... Any deviation, and hell breaks loose. If he doesn't say something, or just hints, the "evil" in this case, is "the other person", the partner's to blame..... If he comes out and defends his choices, Lord have mercy on him..... They will tear him to pieces, eat him alive, like modern Maenads..... No one has rights on him, other than them..... Sad......
I have to confess that I am really crazy about this man. So crazy, that my life evolves around the media, just for a single pic..... So crazy, that I compare the outside image of his with other men.... And they lose..... So crazy that I feel if he announces he's getting in a serious relation with a lady, I will die...... So crazy that I actually hope he comes out as homosexual.... Why???? Because the pain will be far less great if he is "lost" to a man. I mean, I will never wonder "what was not enough", I will know.... and I will never enter the agonizing path of comparing myself to that lady, and knowing myself, bringing me down constantly. If he's gay, it's over. If he's not, I would be "even if I was next to him,he wouldn't notice me because I am short/fat/ugly/stupid/untalented/worthless/invisible - pick a word, or pick them all.... I already feel like that, I will just sink into greater depression then......
But the drama sometimes that goes on..... oh, my..... And all of it evolves the band. Yes, I am MAD about the band, especially the singer, me and a few million other ladies (young or old).
But heaven forbid to start the "girlfriend" topic. Hell breaks loose. Well, not with everybody, but with some people/"fans". Cursing and evilness at its best (or is it worst?). Admittedly, the lady he was engaged to, did cause him bodily harm. But, that is all we heard of. She never spoke, never said anything, never gave explanation of the incident. And even he, he spoke of it as if it was something of everyday nature, like "my g/f cooked beans", no "drama", just a statement (which is to be admired, many would have resorted to vicious vocabulary against their g/f). And, truth be told, we were NEVER IN THEIR BED!!!! Do we actually know what had happened??? Yes, they were both using substances, they both admitted it... Other than that, we know nothing. He presents to the public a face of tenderness, caring, lovable..... Is he really like that???? Are we certain he does not abuse his partners??? Maybe he does not enjoy reading only Baudelaire or Poe, maybe he enjoys De Sade.... Who's to say he does not beat up, humiliate, destroy his partners????? Nobody....
And now, some tabloids, stir up havoc by writing that he is involved with a new lady. For the "fans", she is evil, gold-digger, ugly, and so on, and so forth.... From appearance point of view, I'm not crazy about her. Has nothing to do with bias. She tries to work as a model, her professional shots make her look cute. Her private photos, well, she's an everyday girl, and I would never would suggest her to be a model. She seems to enjoy posing in a certain way, looking over her nose while her head is dipped down, which reminds me of a friend of mine.... They should pose together, both in the same pose, and both with their black hair. I'm not going to comment on the "relationship", no "holding hand" pics, no official word... There may be one, there may be not. But "opportunistic" and "gold-digger"? Show me the evidence!!! Where are they? I haven't heard of anything, I haven't seen anything. Anything to say that she is after his fame, or that they indeed are together. Hear say from tabloids? And no pics.... This lady also is an old friend of the band.... Actually, she had interviewed the whole band, minus the singer, for their official site, back in 2005(?).... OK, I am known as the devil's advocate. I've said it before, I'll say it again. What if she works for them. Now the singer is the master mind behind all creative of the band. What if they plan band stuff together? Not unlikely.... And the photos taken of her leaving(?) his house around 10 in the morning??? OK, Assuming they are not dating, let us suppose that a lady who studies at day and has a night job as well (she's a waitress), has a limited time in her hands and uses/abuses any free time she gets. Well, that goes for everyone. A brief meeting before class, is not all that unlikely..... Of course, I am assuming things, I MAY BE TOTALLY WRONG..... But I enjoy this advocating thing......
And why nobody ever speaks about his first major and publicized relationship? I mean, come on, we could call her names as well, no??? Wasn't she the one who left him, taking the curtains from their apartment???? Bad, bad miss S.!!!!!
Honestly, gossiping about your favorite band/musician is fun. As long as you don't take it seriously.... Some fans seem to think they can claim that person for their own, put him/her on a pedestal and make him/her live the life they dream of..... Any deviation, and hell breaks loose. If he doesn't say something, or just hints, the "evil" in this case, is "the other person", the partner's to blame..... If he comes out and defends his choices, Lord have mercy on him..... They will tear him to pieces, eat him alive, like modern Maenads..... No one has rights on him, other than them..... Sad......
I have to confess that I am really crazy about this man. So crazy, that my life evolves around the media, just for a single pic..... So crazy, that I compare the outside image of his with other men.... And they lose..... So crazy that I feel if he announces he's getting in a serious relation with a lady, I will die...... So crazy that I actually hope he comes out as homosexual.... Why???? Because the pain will be far less great if he is "lost" to a man. I mean, I will never wonder "what was not enough", I will know.... and I will never enter the agonizing path of comparing myself to that lady, and knowing myself, bringing me down constantly. If he's gay, it's over. If he's not, I would be "even if I was next to him,he wouldn't notice me because I am short/fat/ugly/stupid/untalented/worthless/invisible - pick a word, or pick them all.... I already feel like that, I will just sink into greater depression then......