Ding!
Realization!
I want to either perform the music I've written, in 'my band' (songs, lyrics, themes, me as frontman). Or I want to join a band that is already up-and-running as a bass player. I don't want to join a start-up band as a bass player, because chances are I will end up having to put in almost as much energy as 'my' band. And I'm really not interested in meeting other guitar players and "seeing what kinda sound" we come up with.
I have songs. Here they are. Good enough.
I want to either perform the music I've written, in 'my band' (songs, lyrics, themes, me as frontman). Or I want to join a band that is already up-and-running as a bass player. I don't want to join a start-up band as a bass player, because chances are I will end up having to put in almost as much energy as 'my' band. And I'm really not interested in meeting other guitar players and "seeing what kinda sound" we come up with.
I have songs. Here they are. Good enough.