Well, if that was in response to my little posting...not to sound rude or anything, but this was no more then 2 years ago, and to make a statement that you've NEVER gotten something before, when you actually did, and it was talked about in the past 6 months, I'd hope that they would remembed...especially if they are still friends.
It may be seen as sour grapes, if I really cared. However, I believe I'm allowed to feel that my gesture was unappreciated as it was not something enough to be stored in memory.
If I can remember giving it, then it shouldn't be so hard to remember getting it...especially if you haven't got any since ;)
I'll grant that you're allowed to feel that your gesture was unappreciated as it was not committed to memory. However, just because you can remember giving it, doesn't mean that it should be remembered forever by the recipient even if they haven't gotten any since.
It appears that you did give the gift with preconditions. Under those circumstances, I for one would not have accepted it. I give gifts from the heart and allow the recipient to do with it as they please. I don't expect the appreciation to live on, well after the gift has been used, or the value of the gift has expired in the recipients eyes.
First off, there was no pre-conditions or anything, other then the fact that I thought it'd be nice. This is not a lesson in gift-giving or anything like that.
What this is...is my reading a statement that is untrue, and correcting it. Did I feel hurt by the statement? Yes, a little, because I thought that it was something that would have been remembered, as it was a special moment back then, but obviously wasn't.
Is my world collapsing? No. Will I never ever speak to him again for this injustice? Well, I've been talking on the phone and we'll be getting together this week...so, I'd say no.
Why must everything be deeper then it really is on this fucking page?! :)
I got up and had a smoke. That's it...no meaning :)
What do you mean you got up and had a smoke? What kind of comment is that?? What do you mean about things always being deeper then it really is on this fucking page??? Must you always have the last word????
~Rex
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Just my opinion :)
Jay
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If I can remember giving it, then it shouldn't be so hard to remember getting it...especially if you haven't got any since ;)
Jay
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It appears that you did give the gift with preconditions. Under those circumstances, I for one would not have accepted it. I give gifts from the heart and allow the recipient to do with it as they please. I don't expect the appreciation to live on, well after the gift has been used, or the value of the gift has expired in the recipients eyes.
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First off, there was no pre-conditions or anything, other then the fact that I thought it'd be nice. This is not a lesson in gift-giving or anything like that.
What this is...is my reading a statement that is untrue, and correcting it. Did I feel hurt by the statement? Yes, a little, because I thought that it was something that would have been remembered, as it was a special moment back then, but obviously wasn't.
Is my world collapsing? No. Will I never ever speak to him again for this injustice? Well, I've been talking on the phone and we'll be getting together this week...so, I'd say no.
Why must everything be deeper then it really is on this fucking page?! :)
I got up and had a smoke. That's it...no meaning :)
Jay
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Smile Jay :)
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:)
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