I really oppose teenage girls and boys putting their things together at every whim, but I do not agree with marriage only sex. Sex is a very important (not the most, though very important) part of life. I'm not talking about making children. I don't like children only for dinner with salad...err. kidding. But really. Bad sex can easily ruin a relationship, a marriage etc. I think (adult) people should experiment (with proper circumstances...) and with different partners (not talking about hundreds, jeesh). I have no doubt that in 90% of cases you do not marry your perfect half for the first time, just check out the number divorces, and not few of them have "bad sex" origins. There are a lot of things to teach about sex besides possible STDs and pregnancy (though not for teenagers for sure) First of all teaching that we are not animals, and putting tab a into slot b should not be because we have the animalistic urges to do so. But there is good kind of sex too. I don't think it's healthy to totally refrain ourselves from it because of fear of STD or pregnangcy, but if we do it, do it with total comprehension of what could happen if we are not careful. Good sex can give as much to a person's general state of good health as regular baths. There is even zen-sex, just for example. In my country most of the teenage pregnancies are that of gypsies which almost totally equals to lack of proper education, not sex ed or such, but of pure and simple education. Don't hit me too much, thanks.
Absolutely. I wish kids wouldn't open their legs at every opportunity, but it's none of my business what they do on their own free time. As long as they're not doing it in my yard, fine. But yeah, only telling kids sex before marriage is right, that's just...messed up. To me, that seems like it might cause some guilt conflicts in the kid. If the kid feels like he's going to get in deep shit for having sex before marriage, what are the chances that he/she is going to ask for help finding birth control from his parents? Parents need to yank their heads out of their asses and actually support their kids and help them make the right choices in their life, not force choices on them.
Totally agree...:) What are you doing nowadays? No rants for who knows how long...:( /me sad No fics either /me getting sadder if that's possible. No fair neglecting eager audience...;-)
Sex is a very important (not the most, though very important) part of life. I'm not talking about making children. I don't like children only for dinner with salad...err. kidding. But really. Bad sex can easily ruin a relationship, a marriage etc. I think (adult) people should experiment (with proper circumstances...) and with different partners (not talking about hundreds, jeesh). I have no doubt that in 90% of cases you do not marry your perfect half for the first time, just check out the number divorces, and not few of them have "bad sex" origins.
There are a lot of things to teach about sex besides possible STDs and pregnancy (though not for teenagers for sure) First of all teaching that we are not animals, and putting tab a into slot b should not be because we have the animalistic urges to do so. But there is good kind of sex too. I don't think it's healthy to totally refrain ourselves from it because of fear of STD or pregnangcy, but if we do it, do it with total comprehension of what could happen if we are not careful. Good sex can give as much to a person's general state of good health as regular baths. There is even zen-sex, just for example.
In my country most of the teenage pregnancies are that of gypsies which almost totally equals to lack of proper education, not sex ed or such, but of pure and simple education.
Don't hit me too much, thanks.
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What are you doing nowadays? No rants for who knows how long...:( /me sad No fics either /me getting sadder if that's possible. No fair neglecting eager audience...;-)
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