For you people who have been asking me for more detailed definitions of genderqueer/transgender/transexual/genderfuck, there's a pretty good thread going on over here that might clear up a few things (or at least help you understand enough to ask questions that are possible for me to answer):
http://www.livejournal.com/community/genderqueer/572999.html?view=3350599#t3350599 Hoo boy, did I get fucked up last night! I have no idea how or why. All I really remember is being at Adrian's house, watching Trigun, and hallucinating. Then I remember the checkered tile floor waving up and down and the very interesting ride home, and then being in my bed, hugging Adrian, and passing out. Then, I woke up sometime around 5 a.m. and was alone and had to pee but I couldn't get up because my head felt really heavy. Found myself really awake at 9 a.m. but forced myself to go back to sleep until 11.