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Let me just post a disclaimer because I felt like a jerk after I explained something to Gen today. I don't think judging people is a fault, because it is in fact human nature to do so. I also don't take people's faults against them, I think the reason certain people's faults get to me is because they don't admit them and try to be someone they aren't. One way that I have changed since coming to Bennington is that I can now accept criticism and accept the fact that I am not perfect. It's when people can't that annoys me. I'm not saying I can't be friends with people like that, it just gets on my nerves after a while. I'm working on trying to confront people about it rather than talk about it with other people, but that takes time.
Basically, I analyze people until I get to know them really well, and end up realizing they aren't who I thought they were, so I need time to adjust to the "real" them, as cliche as that is. I don't do this with everyone either. My friends that are really upfront with their personalities are the ones I can always be around. That might also have something to do with why I get bored in relationships, or lose interest all of a sudden.
Anyway, this is just me thinking out loud.
I'm interested to receive your thoughts.
Basically, I analyze people until I get to know them really well, and end up realizing they aren't who I thought they were, so I need time to adjust to the "real" them, as cliche as that is. I don't do this with everyone either. My friends that are really upfront with their personalities are the ones I can always be around. That might also have something to do with why I get bored in relationships, or lose interest all of a sudden.
Anyway, this is just me thinking out loud.
I'm interested to receive your thoughts.