I Don't Expect Too Many Responses, But Why Not...

[ruckinredhead]

As an anonymous reply to this post, I want you to ask me any questions you've been afraid to ask for whatever reason. That I'd be offended, angry, whatever. I won't know it was you. I'll answer them honestly. Even if it hurts. If you don't have any questions, feel free to make any comments you've been afraid to make. Again, I won't know it was you

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[anonymous]

Why can't you reconcile with Annaliese?

[ruckinredhead]

I wanted to and still want to, but when the initial fight happened, she decided to right me out of her life. I was willing from the get-go to chalk it up to a fight (cause friends fight; it happens) and get over it. Yes I was pissed and disagreed with her, but I wasn't ready to throw away a friendship over it. But when she said she didn't want anything to do with me anymore, well then there's not really much I can do about that. So though I don't really expect things to get patches, I've pretty much just been playing the waiting game. So..I guess I don't know why entirely, since it was her call.

[anonymous]

Saying you were ready to just chalk it up to friends fighting and that it was "her call" kind of makes it sound like it was all her fault (maybe that wasn't how you meant that to sound though.) But don't you think you share some of the blame and that you guys were a little rough? It seemed like she kind of got ganged up on and I know her feelings were really hurt by some of what was said about her.

[ruckinredhead]

I'm not placing blame on either party. It takes two people to fight, thats pretty simple. However, I am saying if it were up to me, we wouldn't have quit being friends. Yeah some people may have said some mean things to her, but I wasn't one of them. I defended my position, but never reduced to name calling or character defaming.

[tuffgirl52]

Hey I never did any name calling either even after I was called a Jerk and immature. I still have all the e-mails to prove it too. Oh well it's over and done with and I for one don't care.