Help?

Mar 18, 2009 19:30

What do I do?? A very close friend of Andrew's died today from cancer...He's devastated obviously. I have never been very good at comforting someone about these things, not because I don't care but because I don't know what to do or say. How do you say "Its going to be ok" when, really its not. I mean you don't really truly  GET OVER someone dying you just learn to deal with the pain and move on.

I feel so bad, especially after the fight we had 20 minutes before  his mother called to tell him what happened.

I'm still extremely hurt still by things he said, calling our daughter a "bitch" and that I can "Take care of the fucking kid myself" and everything else. He even flipped her crib over nearly breaking it, denting the wall and throwing my cell across the room....but I'm willing to put that aside to help him through this..I just don't know how.

T_T
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