On breaking up
Alot of times, when two people decide they shouldn't carry on their lives together as a couple, they stop holding hands, they may or may not lapse into depression, and very often, we wonder whether there really are differences. There are only so many reasons to justify a break-up, so many times we fail to realise that when the ultimate happens, it's because expectations have settled in.
Love is without expectations. I am being dreamy here, but in my opinion being dreamy is the essence of keeping the honeymoon mood strong. When people stop loving, it is really just that - the love has stopped. We are not talking about differences here. If you love someone, you put aside the 'differences' or you iron them out. Because then Love is the only thing that exist and differences are only created the moment you start to expect.
Doesn't matter whether it's irreconcilable differences, or the wrong timing, or the absentmindedness.
Very simply, you have maxed out your ability to love, you have stopped. And you have started to expect.
Love is without expectations. I am being dreamy here, but in my opinion being dreamy is the essence of keeping the honeymoon mood strong. When people stop loving, it is really just that - the love has stopped. We are not talking about differences here. If you love someone, you put aside the 'differences' or you iron them out. Because then Love is the only thing that exist and differences are only created the moment you start to expect.
Doesn't matter whether it's irreconcilable differences, or the wrong timing, or the absentmindedness.
Very simply, you have maxed out your ability to love, you have stopped. And you have started to expect.