For later writing purposes:

Speaking of a man who doesn't explore his emotions or really connect with them very much: any question about his emotions is like an essay test he didn't study for--he will often have to make up an answer on the spot and hope you buy it, but he really doesn't know.

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/serial.htm

Great site.

Like this bit:

"...serial bullies are adept at encouraging conflict between people who might otherwise pool negative information about them."