...And direct everyone to read this
post by Joss Whedon (not Buffy or Firefly related). It's thought provoking, if soul-killingly depressing.
As I read it I was really struck by the fact that it was a guy who understood. Maybe it's just the set of guys I've been around--twenty-somethings with the entitled frat boy mentality.
Anywho. Removing hat now.