Jun 20, 2005 12:42
This guy. I’ve never actually talked to him for anything longer than a 10 minute stretch, so i just thought that he was a strange guy with odd interests, but generally okay. Hah.
He gave me the impression that some time in the last week he got hit by years of overdue hormones, and finally discovered the opposite sex. So he wants advice on how to go after a girl. I’m okay with that. What i’m not okay with is the fact that he was a COMPLETE JERK about it.
So he asks about dress sizes. After explaining the range of american sizes, i hesitantly finally reveal that i’m a size 10 or 12. I’ve had years of getting used to being fat. I was fat as a kid. Whenever i’m faced with a male that seems to believe fat equates to funny, i tell myself that they’ll end up with a girl who is a perfect size 6 and has a IQ to match, resist the urge to kick their balls in and walk away. I can’t remember his exact words, but i do know that the last time i met a guy i wanted to stab in the eye quite so badly was when i was 9. It is somewhat forgivable insulting girls when you are 9, but 19...
Among the other insults he managed to unwittingly (or not, who knows) throw at me was
“Hey, you’re a girl, right?” with the tone of a person who has just noticed this. “That means you know other girls, right?”
I wrote this when i was annoyed, and then left it alone. Posting things in the heat of the moment not really a good idea, but you know? I really want to bitch about this. The asshole to nice guy ratio? Very depressing.
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