cheaters

Dec 01, 2007 01:29

This guy started talking to me on yahoo, and he is married.  As soon as he told me that, I asked "then what are you doing here?"  Then he tried to be "just chatting" and be my friend... here it is a couple days later and he must've forgotten how I feel about cheating b/c he asks if I am still single, b/c if I was, he would like to take me out on a date.  Then I asked if he was serious, and what about being married?  He says "oh yeah.. i bet you think bad of me now."  Ughhhhh....  I have noticed that there are a lot of guys out there that openly state that they are married or in a relationship but are looking for "something on the side" or "discreet relationship."  This makes me sick.  I mean I knew it existed, but to actually be able to SEE it everywhere now on all these dating sites and such...  I just don't know how I can trust men!  You never know if they are having a secret life with 4 wives (like that architect on a law & order episode), or if they are having sex with someone in your bed while you're at work (cheaters- tv show), or if they might kill you for the insurance money!  I saw something about one guy who shot himself 4 times after killing his wife, to make it look convincingly like a robbery/shooting.  They found that he had specifically searched gunshot wounds to locations that would miss bone or organs in the months leading up to this.  He also downloaded the Guns-N-Roses "I used to love her" song about having to kill her b/c she drove him crazy right before he took her for the walk during which he ended her life.  He then deleted the song an hour before turning over his comp to the police.  When I watch things like this, I just think.... that could be me!  I do tend to drive boyfriends crazy, and I'm sure that all these women who this happens to weren't thinking that their husbands were capable of murdering them.  That just sucks.  
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