Lisa,
I don't know what to say really, but I know Oliver broke up with you and I'm sorry for that. I truly meant it when I said you were a fantastic girl, and while I don't know you very well, I know my friend and I know he hasn't been quite so happy in years. I feel like I haven't been a very good friend to him lately and I hope you can just give him some time. I think he's going through something right now that not many of us are able to understand - and what he really needs, more than anything else are friends. Please let me know if you need anything at all - I know several acceptable charms for his unmentionables.
Sincerely