The Phases of a 'teenage' 'Serious' relationshp.tazydevil16June 5 2005, 12:07:52 UTC
Well thats nice isnt it. I'm glad that Stacey knows what you on about because, well because you said she did right? I know that many of those 'Phases' fit in with me and Geoff right?, well, you have had to have had a 'Serious' 'Teenage' relationship to understand why all those stages may seem fun for some people. 1> There is a difference between thinking you are in love and doing stuff because of that and doing stuff because you actually ARE in love. again, hard to understand and to tell the difference, you wern't too clear on which one you were refering too. 2> If a couple decides to plan for the future, its a very touchy subject, some people can make plans and not actually mean them while others make plans that they have their heart set on and have found that their partner does. It's all about how confident you are in a relationship as to whether or not you can talk about/plan for kids and as for marriage, thats generally spoken about between couples from a very early age. Ne 1 remember being 5 and watching their friends get 'Married' in the school playground. Those were the days, no commitment with marriage and no need for a legal divorce either. 3> Ditching friends works both ways. A friend will often later go on to ditch the friend that ditched them or assume that they are being ditched when they aint. it's all very confusing. But the best of friends find a way through it all, i guess its all about growing up, everyone does it. I guess the point i am trying to make is that no, all the things you have listed above Rox, probably don't sound fun to you, and going by me and Geoff and Lee and Stacey, Ohh and Ant and Charlee (cant spell)i guess thats all you would think about a so calld serious relationship. But wait, you will eventually have your turn and moments where you too cant stop thinking about someone and have to change plans. I aint being mean here, just standing up for all couples who have been or are going through some of these phases, what people have to remember is that other phases will come or go, its which path they choose.
path1-live happily ever after with kids and make a happy family path2-Realise that partner sucks and that aint the person you wanted to marry path3-Partner realises that you suck and that you aint who they want to marry path4-You get knocked up by sleeze or get an std, then it ends path5-Find that your partner wants to be with a different sex! path6-It aLL falls appart because you wont move to Croatia and wont marry him to stay here path7-Find out that he sleeps with Ho's and isnt who you thought he was(not aimed at ne one in particular) path8-You're gay path9-You or they die path10-It just don't work out.(It can happen, a clean cut break up)
Anymore suggestions, i'd be glad to hear them. There are lots of paths to choose. Choose the path to your destiny, you will.
I know that many of those 'Phases' fit in with me and Geoff right?, well, you have had to have had a 'Serious' 'Teenage' relationship to understand why all those stages may seem fun for some people.
1> There is a difference between thinking you are in love and doing stuff because of that and doing stuff because you actually ARE in love. again, hard to understand and to tell the difference, you wern't too clear on which one you were refering too.
2> If a couple decides to plan for the future, its a very touchy subject, some people can make plans and not actually mean them while others make plans that they have their heart set on and have found that their partner does. It's all about how confident you are in a relationship as to whether or not you can talk about/plan for kids and as for marriage, thats generally spoken about between couples from a very early age. Ne 1 remember being 5 and watching their friends get 'Married' in the school playground. Those were the days, no commitment with marriage and no need for a legal divorce either.
3> Ditching friends works both ways. A friend will often later go on to ditch the friend that ditched them or assume that they are being ditched when they aint. it's all very confusing. But the best of friends find a way through it all, i guess its all about growing up, everyone does it.
I guess the point i am trying to make is that no, all the things you have listed above Rox, probably don't sound fun to you, and going by me and Geoff and Lee and Stacey, Ohh and Ant and Charlee (cant spell)i guess thats all you would think about a so calld serious relationship. But wait, you will eventually have your turn and moments where you too cant stop thinking about someone and have to change plans.
I aint being mean here, just standing up for all couples who have been or are going through some of these phases, what people have to remember is that other phases will come or go, its which path they choose.
path1-live happily ever after with kids and make a happy family
path2-Realise that partner sucks and that aint the person you wanted to marry
path3-Partner realises that you suck and that you aint who they want to marry
path4-You get knocked up by sleeze or get an std, then it ends
path5-Find that your partner wants to be with a different sex!
path6-It aLL falls appart because you wont move to Croatia and wont marry him to stay here
path7-Find out that he sleeps with Ho's and isnt who you thought he was(not aimed at ne one in particular)
path8-You're gay
path9-You or they die
path10-It just don't work out.(It can happen, a clean cut break up)
Anymore suggestions, i'd be glad to hear them. There are lots of paths to choose. Choose the path to your destiny, you will.
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