An Actual Update
Yes thast right.. Im actually updating. Not just ranting.
So Tom is back home and we are working things out. He pretty much told me that his freak out was over the fact the "he doesnt have enough freedom". I almost blew my gasket because he has tons of freedom! He goes for ball beers every Thursday, Dano's every Friday and stays for ber after work like 2x a week. Me? Well right now I've seen my best friends once in two weeks and she stopped by last night and Tom blew a fuse over it. I dont get it. I really think it was just that he is so tired.... 14 hour days will do that to a person.
On another note. I lost my job. My boss 'let me go' because I was upset the day Tom left me and him and his wife were" not willing to deal with the emotional storm that this situation might develop into.". Fucker.. oh I was so pissed! I was like my husband just LEFT ME? Did you want me to sing and dance? It took everything I had not to call the ESA on his ass. So now I'm job hunting and it sucks. There is NOTHING out there so Im going to end up working retail. I had a job interview last Wednesday with Bell and it went awesome. They told me they were going to heck my references and they would talk to me on Friday. Well Friday came and went and nothing. So Monday I emailed the guy and he said they were having trouble getting one of my references and if I could arrange a time for them to talk that would really speed up the process. So I called someone I knew would be home that afternoon (my other references was at work!) and then called the girl doing the checks. Well she said she would call her that afternoon if she had time, if not she would call first thing in the morning. Well she didnt. So then I had BOTH references try and call her at work and on her work cell, but STILL NOTHING! Im so frusterated! The pay there isnt great but it has lots of opportunity to move up AND it has full benefits... so Im tyring to be patient. I have another job offer for a clothing store and I dont want to leave them hanging but I dont want to miss this other opportunity...
Tom has decided he is going home for Thanksgiving. Thats cool other that he was just home and we have a wedding that weekend that I am now going stag to. So I finally told him thats fine but Im going to Congress whether he likes it or not. He's bitched the last 3 years about me going so I havent. But I am going this year if it kills me. I think dad and I are going to tour down for the super sale.... hint hint!
Anyways, Darla is here so I should probably be social!
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So Tom is back home and we are working things out. He pretty much told me that his freak out was over the fact the "he doesnt have enough freedom". I almost blew my gasket because he has tons of freedom! He goes for ball beers every Thursday, Dano's every Friday and stays for ber after work like 2x a week. Me? Well right now I've seen my best friends once in two weeks and she stopped by last night and Tom blew a fuse over it. I dont get it. I really think it was just that he is so tired.... 14 hour days will do that to a person.
On another note. I lost my job. My boss 'let me go' because I was upset the day Tom left me and him and his wife were" not willing to deal with the emotional storm that this situation might develop into.". Fucker.. oh I was so pissed! I was like my husband just LEFT ME? Did you want me to sing and dance? It took everything I had not to call the ESA on his ass. So now I'm job hunting and it sucks. There is NOTHING out there so Im going to end up working retail. I had a job interview last Wednesday with Bell and it went awesome. They told me they were going to heck my references and they would talk to me on Friday. Well Friday came and went and nothing. So Monday I emailed the guy and he said they were having trouble getting one of my references and if I could arrange a time for them to talk that would really speed up the process. So I called someone I knew would be home that afternoon (my other references was at work!) and then called the girl doing the checks. Well she said she would call her that afternoon if she had time, if not she would call first thing in the morning. Well she didnt. So then I had BOTH references try and call her at work and on her work cell, but STILL NOTHING! Im so frusterated! The pay there isnt great but it has lots of opportunity to move up AND it has full benefits... so Im tyring to be patient. I have another job offer for a clothing store and I dont want to leave them hanging but I dont want to miss this other opportunity...
Tom has decided he is going home for Thanksgiving. Thats cool other that he was just home and we have a wedding that weekend that I am now going stag to. So I finally told him thats fine but Im going to Congress whether he likes it or not. He's bitched the last 3 years about me going so I havent. But I am going this year if it kills me. I think dad and I are going to tour down for the super sale.... hint hint!
Anyways, Darla is here so I should probably be social!
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