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-Longest relationship:
Three years and 2 months on Monday.
-Shortest relationship:
Prolly about 3 days when Danny Green was crushing on me when I was in grade 5 at the Mackay Centre (He thought I was the most beautiful girl, we took the bus together - however Danny was a little too old for me at 16 as he was physically handicapped as this was a school where 'able bodied' children were intergrated with physically handicapped and deaf children before they made the transition into the public school system. Oh how he made me blush...)
-How many people have you broken up with?
None, they've done the breaking...
-How many times have you truly been in love?
Well maybe 4 times... it's a strong emotion...
-How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you that they love you?
3
-Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person you were with?
Yes.
-Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt?
Yes, and I don't ever want to feel like that again.
-Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?
Twice, and both times I felt horrible about it later on. The first one said I was the only girl who had ever made him cry... it was painful.
-Have you ever cried over a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Definitely.
-Are you happier single or in a relationship?
I seem to be happier in a relationship, but I've managed to be happy while single too.
-Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend or girlfriend?
No.
-Have you ever been cheated on?
sigh... hasn't every woman at one point.
-What is the best part of being in a relationship?
I enjoy the hugs, and I love falling asleep in the arms of the man I love.
-What is the worst part of being in a relationship?
Being afraid that things will go down the same way as other relationships, when you really don't want to screw this one up.
-Worst relationship?
It's a toss up - I learnt alot from my relationship w/Nick, yet I think the worst was finally sleeping with R and then never hearing from him again even though I knew there were complications involved in seeing him.
-Have you ever had your heart broken?
I never thought it would heal again, it wasn't until I'd practically sworn men off that I met Sean, the love of my life.
-Have you ever broken someones heart?
Maybe.
-Do you talk to any of your exes?
I still email back and forth every once in awhile w/Nick.
-Do you think any of your exes feel the same way?
I dunno if they feel the same way, but Nick still says I'm the only one who has ever believed in him.
-What is your ideal boyfriend or girlfriend?
Ideals are hard to find, but my ideal was someone who sees in me the potential I have, someone who is decent, honest, funny, and fun to be around because I enjoy silly moments just as much as the serious ones.
-Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
I think I am, I try not to take Sean or our relationship for granted, and I try to do and say things that let him know how much I care about him.
-Have you dated people who were not good to you?
Well I'd have to say, dating your coworker who is still living with the mother of their baby may not have been good for me...
-Have you been in an abusive relationship?
This is one thing I would never put up with, it's the quickest way to get me out the door. My mother was an abused woman, my sister has been in abusive situations - so I refuse to let any man I love ever think he can disrespect me like that.
-Name your most memorable ex if you have had :
Well I am not sure memorable is the right word, however I would have to say I learned alot about myself w/Nick. I learned I could be faithful a thousand miles apart, I learned that I was much less afraid of the world than I thought I was. I learned that even when I thought my heart was broken and would not mend, that it was possible to find love in other ways - like the birth of my niece.
-Have you dated someone older then you?
Yes... Sean is almost 4 years older than me and at the time, so was Rob.
-What is one thing that all of your exes had in common?
I can't think of anything they had in common except leaving me.
-Say, who are the top three most attractive ex that you have dated?
Nick was pretty attractive, so was my asian love, Bin. lol.
-Do you regret anything that you have said or done with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Oh yeah... my gf Dee took my cell phone away so I wouldn't make any drunken phone calls... lol.
-Have you ever cried yourself to sleep over a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Too many times in the past.
-Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
Yes I do, but it hardly works out in relationships.
-Believe in love at first sight?
Maybe not love at first sight, but I do believe in an instant attraction, or connection. I felt that way about Sean.
-Ever dated two people at once?
not really... I was considering getting back together with Nick when I met Sean, even went through with visiting my Florida friends as I had arranged the trip before meeting Sean, but I wasn't dating, just getting some closure I would say.
-What's the perfect date?
coffee, conversation, a walk in the rain
-Ever been given a promise ring?
Once.
-Ever been given an Engagement ring?
Once.
-Do you want to get married?
One day, very much so.
-Do you have something to say to any of your exes?
Not really.
-Ever stolen someones boyfriend or girlfriend?
Never.
-Ever liked someone elses boyfriend or girlfriend?
No, not really.
-Do you believe in true love?
Yes, and I think I finally found it with Sean.
-Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds?
Worse...
thanks to
her_whispers for the fun survey :)