Friends

[roshini]

It is strange, but some people whom I grew up with I do not relate anymore or I just don't feel like talking to them. THis one friend of mine, very very close friend once upon a time... we have shared many secrets... but now I don't feel close to her anymore. She has moved nearby recently but I don't feel like visiting her. talks with her no longer

Comments

[seizureinquiet]

I felt like that about a few of my friends . I felt there wa nothing in common. But, then I looked at the person as a new friend and soon we were back into the old days. I guess it is a new coating which you just need to break through. She maybe feeling the same about you too. During pregnancy , it is natural to talk about kids. So, you should be a good listener.

friends...

[roshini]

guess thats what the problem is then... I am not a good listner... well its not so much that she interfers with my life decisions and makes me feel guilty that I am not taking off from work and meeting her. She feels I should go and help her which is fine but then, I have a home some responsibilities and I am not longer single to do what I want... I wonder if she understands that....

Re: friends...

[seizureinquiet]

I would do things whn I can and if it was getting too out of hands , explain to her my situation. Maybe she isn't thinking about your situation.

Thanks

[roshini]

I do have a lot of friends its just that I probably write very negatively.... of course I am close to a very few i.e. with whom I share stuff but they are far far away in india... see like I said I am a very negative person....
btw I really like your picture... You look great and its taken very well.

Re: Thanks

[seizureinquiet]

Thanks... :) Yeah I know I used to be like you... and me too have close friends only in India. Whats your email id?