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So if you have came here to lurk, congrats. You have made me feel sketchy about posting anywhere on LJ. You are officially an intarwebz police. There is no reason for you to be here, other than to justify yourself. I have removed all of my personal info because you have threatened to report me. I never said I dont pay rent with my BAH, my mother will back me up saying I have paid her in full the amount she wishes every month.
I take care of my son, who is healthy, happy and 'advanced'. My mother has not had him in his care for more than 8 hours at a time, and that only happened once. My husband had just got home for basic training xmas break and we got a hotel from 9 pm to 8 am. I dont put him in day care, I am a stay at home mother who enjoys days with her son. My mother watches him for maybe a half hour a day while I pee/take a shower/what have you. She enjoys time with him and vice versa.
I dont spend ridic amounts of money on anything. I spent less than a hundred dollars on my son and husband for xmas. I do however, buy things I need like underwear and shoes. I do not take advantage of food stamps (I refuse to call them anything else, thats what they are). I redport everything my husband makes. We just now stopped recieving them, from a transitional program they offer. I do not recieve WIC, or anything like it. I pay out of pocket for his formula and buy him slightly used clothing at swaps and used clothing stores. I buy him name brand diapers, and wipes, because he has sesnsitive skin.
Its my choice to have another child. Its none of your business how she came to be though. There is no reason to feel pity for my children. They have a bank account with monedy in it and a college fund already. I did not plan to have another child for a few yearfs but it happened. And I welcome it fully. If you have redad thru my journal, you may see that I have had an abortion in the past. Its not something Ill ever do again. I was on heavy drugs and not in a place to have a. Baby. Now that my husband is in the Army, I think its a great time to have children, but like I said we wont be having anymore, I am considering long term birth control. Not that its any of your business.
either way, I take carfe of my family with the help of a few others. Technically I am a single mother. Its hard but we get bhy. My finances and what I spend on rent and what I do give my mother for rent arent your business. I will be removing communities from my page, and cutting back on posting to communities. I love LJ, and will continue to use it but moderately.
I take care of my son, who is healthy, happy and 'advanced'. My mother has not had him in his care for more than 8 hours at a time, and that only happened once. My husband had just got home for basic training xmas break and we got a hotel from 9 pm to 8 am. I dont put him in day care, I am a stay at home mother who enjoys days with her son. My mother watches him for maybe a half hour a day while I pee/take a shower/what have you. She enjoys time with him and vice versa.
I dont spend ridic amounts of money on anything. I spent less than a hundred dollars on my son and husband for xmas. I do however, buy things I need like underwear and shoes. I do not take advantage of food stamps (I refuse to call them anything else, thats what they are). I redport everything my husband makes. We just now stopped recieving them, from a transitional program they offer. I do not recieve WIC, or anything like it. I pay out of pocket for his formula and buy him slightly used clothing at swaps and used clothing stores. I buy him name brand diapers, and wipes, because he has sesnsitive skin.
Its my choice to have another child. Its none of your business how she came to be though. There is no reason to feel pity for my children. They have a bank account with monedy in it and a college fund already. I did not plan to have another child for a few yearfs but it happened. And I welcome it fully. If you have redad thru my journal, you may see that I have had an abortion in the past. Its not something Ill ever do again. I was on heavy drugs and not in a place to have a. Baby. Now that my husband is in the Army, I think its a great time to have children, but like I said we wont be having anymore, I am considering long term birth control. Not that its any of your business.
either way, I take carfe of my family with the help of a few others. Technically I am a single mother. Its hard but we get bhy. My finances and what I spend on rent and what I do give my mother for rent arent your business. I will be removing communities from my page, and cutting back on posting to communities. I love LJ, and will continue to use it but moderately.