I've dated other nationalities, to be honest I've been treated better by other nationalities than my own...
So I would have to say that my personal favorite were Asian men, but they were given a hard time being with me by their families and friends.
So I let them go. I learned a lot from them though.
For instance , NO they are NOT smaller, and can be quite playful in bed.
Possessive, I was surprised by that. They have an public face and a private one..(Very sexy)...Loyal..family oriented, that's where the problem came in, I did research, (I have always done that) So that I wouldn't do anything to embarrass them when we were some where out. (Everyone has a basis for what motivates their behavior, how they are raised) So I looked it up. And found out how very important Sons were, First sons especially. So That lead me to look at things from their family's point of view. How in good Conscience could I hurt his family? How long before he would resent it? Why hurt him at all?
If I *thought* that I would have married any of them I *might* have been willing to take a chance.
I couldn't do that to a boy friend. I knew I had no plans to marry any time soon. So why do that to them?
I told my children to *use* "the system",What ever works for you at the time. This isn't about honor, it's about survival, Because of how they look they will be called just about every race under the sun.
The genetic pool in America will be so mixed up in the future it makes you wonder what will happen then.
The one thing I always stand firm on is...Never judge a person by race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation. Only by the person alone...there are generalities, true, but for the most part, everyone is unique, even if they have some of the same traits...
So when I meet a person I don't really look at anything but how they act...
That's just me though...
Oh yea what do I look like?
:snicker:
*I* NEVER take pictures..but you can see one of my daughters on my journal.
So I would have to say that my personal favorite were Asian men, but they were given a hard time being with me by their families and friends.
So I let them go. I learned a lot from them though.
For instance , NO they are NOT smaller, and can be quite playful in bed.
Possessive, I was surprised by that. They have an public face and a private one..(Very sexy)...Loyal..family oriented, that's where the problem came in, I did research, (I have always done that) So that I wouldn't do anything to embarrass them when we were some where out. (Everyone has a basis for what motivates their behavior, how they are raised) So I looked it up. And found out how very important Sons were, First sons especially. So That lead me to look at things from their family's point of view.
How in good Conscience could I hurt his family?
How long before he would resent it?
Why hurt him at all?
If I *thought* that I would have married any of them I *might* have been willing to take a chance.
I couldn't do that to a boy friend. I knew I had no plans to marry any time soon. So why do that to them?
I told my children to *use* "the system",What ever works for you at the time. This isn't about honor, it's about survival, Because of how they look they will be called just about every race under the sun.
The genetic pool in America will be so mixed up in the future it makes you wonder what will happen then.
The one thing I always stand firm on is...Never judge a person by race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation. Only by the person alone...there are generalities, true, but for the most part, everyone is unique, even if they have some of the same traits...
So when I meet a person I don't really look at anything but how they act...
That's just me though...
Oh yea what do I look like?
:snicker:
*I* NEVER take pictures..but you can see one of my daughters on my journal.
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