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Finally had the balls to send Holly (Jon's other "girlfriend") a text message (it ended up being 3 because it was so long). I would have called but I didn't want to take the chance that I would actually have to talk to her. This is what it said: "I hope you know that Jon's been playing you for the past 6 months, we've been together for over a
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im just going to throw out my personal thoughts. i dotn know your situation or anything and really i dont even know you, but you are on my friends page and when i have stuff to say i have to comment so...
i suppose i dont know the whole story with you and this person, but it sounds to me like he's not worth your's or this other girls time. and by letting him come see you and still be with her, he is getting his way, and he's probably enjoying the hell out of it. so like you said he is using you both, but as long as either of you put up with it it will continue.
ive been in similar situations from what i can gather of this one and they are the worst thing any person can put themselves through. by being around someone that is so incredibly inhumane and does not care about anothers feeling you are only furthering yourself down the ladder of low self-esteem. No one deserves to be treated that way by another peson, but the saddest part is the people who continue to put up with it.
if i was in your situation, no matter how long i had known the person or been seeing them i would sever all ties and even though it may be a tough thing and it may be sad for a while in the end you'll find yourself a happier person. Not only that but when you do meet someone that does treat you right and does not cheat you will then realize what it is to be treated properly and trust me you wont ever let yourself get that far into something so terrible again.
sorry about my rant, but i really hate to see people that allow others to treat them certain ways and by letting him come visit or live with you, you are basically allowing destructive habits to continue. if every girl that this guy tried to get with turned him down because he was a cheater he would either:
A- have to change the way he treats women
or
B- date men.
but by letting him cheat its basically continuing the cycle that men can use and treat women like complete shit and somehow still recieve what they want.
Be Strong and Give your time, energy, love and attention to someone who truly deserves it and someone who has earned the right. he certainly has not.
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She just found out a little while ago that he had "another girlfriend"
and that was that.
I believe.
She's just trying to warn the other girl - and maybe get a little bit of revenge.
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Particularly when they are telling you you should be doing what you already are, and they're calling you wrong without catching up...
I mean, not reading it in the first place, is one thing... but dont comment without attempting to inform yourself a little bit about the situation...
I cant always keep up with my friends page comments... I try, but sometimes I get busy and dont catch up. BUT, I do when I know or realize something important is going on in someones life.
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