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Dear men of the world,
Honestly, they're just breasts.
My possessing a rather nice set doesn't mean that I'm obligated to speak to you while you speak to them.
Sure, I dress in such a way as you might think I wanted your attention, but really? It's all for me. You might try checking out body language in addition to manner of dress. That closed off body position? Means I don't want your attention. If I'm sticking my chest in your face (and we're not on a crowded bus or something where I don't have a choice), then sure. But otherwise? Not so much.
I like feeling like I (fattie that I am) have some way to hold my own with all the pretty people around me. So yes, I favor low-cut tops. (Besides, the view from where I'm sitting? Hot. I *like* my breasts.) But it's not for your benefit, and if I ignore you, don't take it personally. I'm probably either skeeved out by your behavior (and if I ignore you, it's like it didn't happen or something), or I'm on my way to somewhere and I'd like to get on with my day.
Love,
me.
Honestly, they're just breasts.
My possessing a rather nice set doesn't mean that I'm obligated to speak to you while you speak to them.
Sure, I dress in such a way as you might think I wanted your attention, but really? It's all for me. You might try checking out body language in addition to manner of dress. That closed off body position? Means I don't want your attention. If I'm sticking my chest in your face (and we're not on a crowded bus or something where I don't have a choice), then sure. But otherwise? Not so much.
I like feeling like I (fattie that I am) have some way to hold my own with all the pretty people around me. So yes, I favor low-cut tops. (Besides, the view from where I'm sitting? Hot. I *like* my breasts.) But it's not for your benefit, and if I ignore you, don't take it personally. I'm probably either skeeved out by your behavior (and if I ignore you, it's like it didn't happen or something), or I'm on my way to somewhere and I'd like to get on with my day.
Love,
me.