Jul 13, 2017 14:10
Glass next to table
patronizing about feeding bruce
clothes left everywhere
holds up box of crackers to ask if its empty. Cant make any decisions by herself.
Ive gone off the boil a bit now and it feels bad to drag this up again, but i should record it so its there for future reference.
the other day R is in the kitchen and im in the living room, she pops round the wall and is holding a box of crackers that Id left on the countertop and says, "is this empty?" Im thinking did I hear that right and ask "what do you mean?" "are they finished" she says, "well take a look inside and find out" she gets all mad and says it would be just easier if i answered the question. really! easier than just looking in the box? The fact that she gets so mad when you ask her something that makes her feel stupid means Im always having to watch what i say and so often dont say anything anymore.
this post has been waiting to go for a couple of weeks. Ive lost the urge to dig it all up again, but i'll post as is so I can remember what it was I was thinking about.