What the fuck?!?
You know, sometimes I just get so disappointed with human kind...
Why are we always so damned concerned with what other people think? So concerned that we risk our friendships? But you know, since that's how it is, I guess it all comes down to the fact that you've got to live with your own decisions. I, for one, will not put up with those that feel embarrassed by their friendship with me. I'm just really tired of "secret friendships." Two people are involved in a friendship. They both together decide to start a friendship, to get to know each other. One person cannot do this on their own, decide the grounds for the friendship. I don't really know what else to say except that friendships are a privilege, not something to be taken for granted as just a matter of convenience.
Someone at my work told me that they really admire me for being able to brush off this kind of shit. But you know, I have to. I've put up with far worse already. And I know more is to come. That's why I choose not to deal with it now. It just isn't worth my time. Either you are my friend, or you are not. If being around me is some kind of risk for you, then just forget it. I don't have the time to waste.
On another note, I tried an EZ's burger today... It totally upset my tummy... And let's just say that I'd hate to take a family of five there...
Why are we always so damned concerned with what other people think? So concerned that we risk our friendships? But you know, since that's how it is, I guess it all comes down to the fact that you've got to live with your own decisions. I, for one, will not put up with those that feel embarrassed by their friendship with me. I'm just really tired of "secret friendships." Two people are involved in a friendship. They both together decide to start a friendship, to get to know each other. One person cannot do this on their own, decide the grounds for the friendship. I don't really know what else to say except that friendships are a privilege, not something to be taken for granted as just a matter of convenience.
Someone at my work told me that they really admire me for being able to brush off this kind of shit. But you know, I have to. I've put up with far worse already. And I know more is to come. That's why I choose not to deal with it now. It just isn't worth my time. Either you are my friend, or you are not. If being around me is some kind of risk for you, then just forget it. I don't have the time to waste.
On another note, I tried an EZ's burger today... It totally upset my tummy... And let's just say that I'd hate to take a family of five there...